Thursday, September 27, 2007

Fast Seduction Using Online Personals: Your Photo

Now that you’ve learned all you can from profile writing tips, you’re ready for the next step in online fast seduction: Creating a profile to help you meet women online and the photo.

The photo is a big part of the profile, because as the old saying goes, a picture is worth a thousand words.

Another phrase that comes to mind when it comes to dating profile photos is the one about “judging a book by its cover.” You don’t want to use a photo that will make women judge you negatively without giving themselves a chance to really get to know you. So your job is to present your self in the most honest way possible, while still putting your best foot forward.

Your photo should convey who you are and what your lifestyle is about in a mature way that doesn’t scream “myspace profile picture” taken by a high school kid.

Don’t try to hide your perceived flaws. If you’re balding, don’t wear a hat in every shot to cover your head. A lot of women think bald men are sexy and by hiding your scalp, you might be missing an opportunity for a hot match up.

The same goes for muscles or lack thereof. Don’t worry if you don’t have a body like The Rock because there are plenty of hot women out there who think men built like Adrien Brody or Adam Levine are super sexy.

And here’s a very crucial side note: If you do have a body you love showing off, complete with huge biceps and six-pack abs, now is not the time to pull a Fabio and go shirtless. This sends the wrong message to women, and most of them will actually just laugh at you and move on to the next prospective profile.

Wearing a suit is always a safe bet. It sends a professional image and makes women feel like it’s “safe” to talk to you.

And whatever you do, don’t pretend to be a different person than who you are, because once you meet in person, your date will feel confused and probably angry that you aren’t the same person you were in your profile. This also means steer clear of using pictures that show you 2 years younger and 20 pounds lighter.

More than anything else, let your confidence show in your photos. Confidence is a huge part of attraction and can cover a multitude of your perceived flaws.


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