The question sounds something like – ‘I am comfortable being bi-curious, but I am not quite OK being gay.’ So, before I answer your question, you need to know what actually bi-curiosity is. Being bi-curious does not essentially mean that you are a gay or bisexual person, but, of course, you have somehow developed sexual interest towards members of both sexes. A bi-curious individual may identify himself/herself as either a heterosexual or a homosexual. Still, he/she can often fantasize about someone from the same sex (in case if, he/she is straight). On the other way, if the person concerned is gay, he/she may get sexually attracted towards a member of the opposite sex.
Sexuality of human being cannot be described in just one word, since it is not an either/or situation. Some individuals are, of course, 100% straight. They just don’t feel any sort of sexual attraction towards the members of their own sex on any occasions in their lives. Again, there are some men and women who identify themselves as totally homosexual individuals. Sexual feelings towards persons from the opposite sex never arise in their minds. But, the rest of people, who form the majority section, hover somewhere in between. Some of them may describe themselves as bisexuals, some may be not at all sure about their sexuality (that means they are still ‘questioning’ themselves regarding their sexual orientation), while the rest of them often or occasionally get turned on by persons from both the sexes, but is not yet ready to attach the ‘bi-sexual’ label. They can be hailed as ‘bi-curious’. It is not necessary that a bi-curious person will have sexual encounters with members of their own sex as well as opposite sex. But, they will surely daydream about getting physical with a person with whom they are not supposed to have sex with.
Let’s imagine the situation: Your friend appears to be very much straight and he even has a steady girlfriend. Now, you have suddenly caught him gazing at nude photos of other men in his PC. When you ask him about the issue, he admits that he often gets sexual pleasure looking at young, handsome men, though he never had sex with any man in his life. Here, you can hail your friend’s sexuality as bi-curiosity. Again, the situation can be something different: Your cousin calls her lesbian and she is quite sure that she wants to spend the rest of her life with the woman of her dreams. But, here too, one fine morning, you find her in a compromising position with her male friend. Being questioned, she frankly replies that though she is well aware of her sexual preference, she was just trying to experience how does it feel to get into the act with a man. These are just instances of bi-curious human nature. There may be thousands of other examples that suggest bi-curiosity among individuals.
As there is still some stigma attached to the terms ‘gay’, ‘lesbian’ or even ‘bisexual’, most people tend to call themselves ‘bi-curious’. The perspective of bi-curiosity differs from person to person. For some, it is a provision of breaking free from conventional sexual monotony while for others; it is a way of keeping the options open. Being bi-curious surely makes you partly gay, because you cannot escape the fact that you have both homosexual and heterosexual tendencies. Again, you are not totally gay, because though you may have got into sexual relationships with men only, deep inside you preserve a curiosity of exploring the female anatomy too. But, whether you are gay, bi-sexual or bi-curious, you are an absolutely normal human being. There’s nothing wrong in felling the urge of having sex with both men and women, so be comfortable with yourself and your own feelings.
There are lots of men who identify themselves as straight, yet they have no qualms about having sex with other men. They just cannot resist themselves of obtaining the pleasure of having sex, be it with a woman or a man. Sometimes, admiration for a person from the same gender leads to sexual attraction. These sorts of crushes are more common among the girls. But, whatever it may be, each and every person should express his or her sexual desire freely. Getting curious about another person’s body is neither unnatural, nor offensive.
May be the terms ‘infidelity’, ‘unfaithful’ are more associated with being bisexual, but a person cannot always have control over his/her feelings and emotions. What if they feel indomitable passion inside their hearts for people of both sexes at the same time? It is not at all healthy to keep all desires suppressed. It can have negative consequences in future. So, instead of bothering over the issue of being gay or being bisexual, you must do what you feel like. Get over with all your fears and apprehensions and ask your inner self about your exact orientation, because, you will be the best person to judge your true nature.
http://www.articledashboard.com/Article/Does-being-bi-curious-make-me-gay-/258865
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
How To Get More Stamina With Women
In a recent I discussed the benefits of starting a weight lifting regiment and why it's important for your success with women. Now I want to shift focus and discuss the importance of cardiovascular exercise.
Personally I think engaging in aerobic exercise is one of the BEST things you can do for yourself. From my own experiences as a runner for 16+ years, I've found that people who are "in shape" have a happier outlook on life. But since this ebook is mostly concerned with improving your success with women, allow me to explain why a pattern of cardiovascular exercise will help you with women.
First, you'll be a calmer person. When you're getting regular exercise, you'll constantly releasing endorphins into your body which will help display a more relaxed and calm demeanor. A byproduct is you'll be able to reduce a lot of the nervous energy that interferes with your ability to attract women.
Another benefit is you'll be able to have more stamina in the bedroom. While many guys think regular exercise tires you out, the opposite is actually true.
Regular exercise provides you with more energy- Especially when it comes to sex.
Unless you're training for a marathon, you can use your increased stamina to provide women with an incredible sexual experience.
The final reason you should exercise is because it provides you with a social outlet. Whether you're exercising in a gym or running on the roads, you'll have an opportunity to meet more people. As a result, you'll widen your social circle start talking to athletic and interesting women.
Now that you understand the importance of exercise, let me suggest this…
Try to exercise at least 30 minutes a day, 3-4 times a week. You can either do it on the same days that you lift weights or you could try alternating days. By getting more cardiovascular exercise, you'll obtain many lifestyle benefits and will have a distinct advantage over many guys who are too lazy to bother with it.
http://www.articledashboard.com/Article/How-to-Get-More-Stamina-With-Women/258907
Personally I think engaging in aerobic exercise is one of the BEST things you can do for yourself. From my own experiences as a runner for 16+ years, I've found that people who are "in shape" have a happier outlook on life. But since this ebook is mostly concerned with improving your success with women, allow me to explain why a pattern of cardiovascular exercise will help you with women.
First, you'll be a calmer person. When you're getting regular exercise, you'll constantly releasing endorphins into your body which will help display a more relaxed and calm demeanor. A byproduct is you'll be able to reduce a lot of the nervous energy that interferes with your ability to attract women.
Another benefit is you'll be able to have more stamina in the bedroom. While many guys think regular exercise tires you out, the opposite is actually true.
Regular exercise provides you with more energy- Especially when it comes to sex.
Unless you're training for a marathon, you can use your increased stamina to provide women with an incredible sexual experience.
The final reason you should exercise is because it provides you with a social outlet. Whether you're exercising in a gym or running on the roads, you'll have an opportunity to meet more people. As a result, you'll widen your social circle start talking to athletic and interesting women.
Now that you understand the importance of exercise, let me suggest this…
Try to exercise at least 30 minutes a day, 3-4 times a week. You can either do it on the same days that you lift weights or you could try alternating days. By getting more cardiovascular exercise, you'll obtain many lifestyle benefits and will have a distinct advantage over many guys who are too lazy to bother with it.
http://www.articledashboard.com/Article/How-to-Get-More-Stamina-With-Women/258907
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Interracial Dating And Todays Society
Introduction
Interracial dating is getting a lot of popularity and is no longer something that is frowned upon by society as a whole, and is no longer taboo in today's society, as witnessed by the innumerable interracial dating service websites. While interracial dating is getting more and more mainstream, there are still various people who refuse to accept these relationships and those who may try to physically or emotionally hurt the couple.
Yet anyone who dares to question almost any form of interracial dating is immediately challenged, criticized and dismissed by the "PC police. In today's world, interracial dating is more often seen than before, but that doesn't mean that a nan or grandpa is going to embrace of such a union, they are from the kind of school and believe in dating your own kind!!
Black
Blacks (37%) are twice as likely as whites (17%) to have an immediate family member in an interracial marriage, while Hispanics (27%) fall in the center of those 2 groups. Black men in this country have always been fascinated by white ladies, at times almost engrossed, because of the forbidden-fruit principle.
Among younger men and women there is even wider acceptance of interracial dating: 94% of those born since 1977 say it is all right for blacks and whites to date. While it is tempting to constrict our view of interracial dating to the joining of a black person and a white person, it is authorized to recognize that this practice includes countless other cultures and colour lines. In Britain, 40 per cent of black men are wed to or living with a white woman, versus only 21 per cent of black women married to or living with a white man in the United States.
Asian
Asian includes so innumerable different groups that it comes close to being meaningless. Asians who live abroad are perhaps more liberal than their counterparts who still live in their country of birth. Ie, Asian women commonly love outside their race, as do black men, while it is rare that Asian men and black ladies love outside their race.
East Asians are seen as the most feminine, allowing for more dating choices for girls and fewer for men. In fact, I met a Chinese-American woman who once claimed that all non-Asians interested in East-Asian girls must have a fetish of some sort!!
Romance
Relationships should be based on mutual affection and love, not race. Interracial relationships have become more common over the past 10 years or so, but men and women still have comments to make when they see you out. At this point in human evolution and enlightenment, we should be long past prejudicial attitudes and antiquated ideas about interracial relationships. Opposition by family and friends can cause a terror of abandonment that is suffered by at least one member of the bi-racial union. If you are associated in an interracial relationship, you may feel pressure from both your own community and the community of your significant other. Many and various people respond to this pressure by trying to hide the union.
Conclusion
Today, nearly all African Americans (97%) believe that interracial dating is fine. It is my belief that interracial dating is a good thing. Online interracial dating is a great place to interact with other singles or couples that are also interested in pursuing an interracial relationship, romance or just wanting to love a person of a contrasting ethnicity.
http://www.articledashboard.com/Article/Interracial-Dating-and-Todays-Society/258996
Interracial dating is getting a lot of popularity and is no longer something that is frowned upon by society as a whole, and is no longer taboo in today's society, as witnessed by the innumerable interracial dating service websites. While interracial dating is getting more and more mainstream, there are still various people who refuse to accept these relationships and those who may try to physically or emotionally hurt the couple.
Yet anyone who dares to question almost any form of interracial dating is immediately challenged, criticized and dismissed by the "PC police. In today's world, interracial dating is more often seen than before, but that doesn't mean that a nan or grandpa is going to embrace of such a union, they are from the kind of school and believe in dating your own kind!!
Black
Blacks (37%) are twice as likely as whites (17%) to have an immediate family member in an interracial marriage, while Hispanics (27%) fall in the center of those 2 groups. Black men in this country have always been fascinated by white ladies, at times almost engrossed, because of the forbidden-fruit principle.
Among younger men and women there is even wider acceptance of interracial dating: 94% of those born since 1977 say it is all right for blacks and whites to date. While it is tempting to constrict our view of interracial dating to the joining of a black person and a white person, it is authorized to recognize that this practice includes countless other cultures and colour lines. In Britain, 40 per cent of black men are wed to or living with a white woman, versus only 21 per cent of black women married to or living with a white man in the United States.
Asian
Asian includes so innumerable different groups that it comes close to being meaningless. Asians who live abroad are perhaps more liberal than their counterparts who still live in their country of birth. Ie, Asian women commonly love outside their race, as do black men, while it is rare that Asian men and black ladies love outside their race.
East Asians are seen as the most feminine, allowing for more dating choices for girls and fewer for men. In fact, I met a Chinese-American woman who once claimed that all non-Asians interested in East-Asian girls must have a fetish of some sort!!
Romance
Relationships should be based on mutual affection and love, not race. Interracial relationships have become more common over the past 10 years or so, but men and women still have comments to make when they see you out. At this point in human evolution and enlightenment, we should be long past prejudicial attitudes and antiquated ideas about interracial relationships. Opposition by family and friends can cause a terror of abandonment that is suffered by at least one member of the bi-racial union. If you are associated in an interracial relationship, you may feel pressure from both your own community and the community of your significant other. Many and various people respond to this pressure by trying to hide the union.
Conclusion
Today, nearly all African Americans (97%) believe that interracial dating is fine. It is my belief that interracial dating is a good thing. Online interracial dating is a great place to interact with other singles or couples that are also interested in pursuing an interracial relationship, romance or just wanting to love a person of a contrasting ethnicity.
http://www.articledashboard.com/Article/Interracial-Dating-and-Todays-Society/258996
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