Congratulations, you have your first date with that guy! But now the initial excitement has died down, are you feeling anxious about how it is going to be? There are no guarantees, except perhaps that he is feeling as nervous as you, but here are a few ways you can increase the chances of your date going smoothly
When meeting a potential partner for the first time, it's always worth keeping your safety in mind. The chances are, he is a genuine guy, and you should not be unduly worried, However, by taking such precautions as arranging your own transport to and from your date and meeting away from your home, you will be able to relax a little more. However, it is important to trust your instincts and if at any time during your date, you become concerned, make your excuses and leave.
If your date has made the arrangements for you both, make sure you know where you are going and what for! It sounds obvious, but it is impossible to plan your outfit if you are not sure if you are going for a walk in the country or lunch in a top restaurant. And no one looks great in high heels and full make up in a muddy field.
If you have never met before and perhaps have only seen photographs, make sure you know how to identify each other. Assuming you have a rough idea of height, build and hair colour, you will not need to carry a red rose and folded newspaper! A pre arranged distinctive handbag or unusual colour coat should be enough to confirm you are looking at the right person.
Ask your date to arrive at your venue a few minutes before you to save you having to wait alone. Also, make sure you can let each other know if you are held up so neither of you think you have been stood up.
Before you meet, find out as much as you can about your dates likes, dislikes, etc. By asking open questions about his interests and hobbies, you will be able to keep conversation flowing a little more easily when nerves get the better of you both!
Finally, at the end of your date, let him know if you enjoyed it. But be honest about whether you want to meet up again or not. If you do not want to see him again be polite but firm and do not accept an invitation out of sympathy. If you do both want to repeat the experience, go for it and good luck.
Cheryl Ashbrook is an author for the online dating tips website www.MaxMyProfile.co.uk which provides online dating advice and services for men and women. If you liked this article then why not read more of our dating articles or you could register and receive our free dating eBook with our compliments.
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