So, you’ve gone on a date with a girl and you really like her. Now you want to make sure that she wants to continue dating you. One way to assure a second date is to be very attentive on the first date to one specific topic that SHE brought up. The first step to The Triple R Technique™ is Remembering. Remember as much as possible about a specific topic that she spoke about. Try to pick a topic that she seemed very interested in.
To demonstrate this technique I’ll use a specific situation where I used it recently. I was out a restaurant on a first date with an extremely attractive woman. She was really into cooking. She was telling me about all the different recipes that she loved to prepare. I could tell that she was really passionate about it. So what did I do after the date? I moved on to the second R and did some simple Research. I went to the food network’s website and found some upcoming shows that looked interesting. You can just as easily go to tvguide.com and do a search for anything she might have been talking about. For example, if she was really into tennis, you can search for upcoming shows or tennis or search elsewhere online for upcoming tennis events. The next thing I did was called her a few days after our date and I got her voicemail. So I took this opportunity to perform the third R of the triple R Technique. I Recited the new information that I gathered. I remembered she spoke about how she loved making all different kinds of pasta sauces. In my message I included, “Oh, by the way, Emeril is making his Penne Vodka sauce on his show tomorrow night on the Food Network. I doubt it’s as good as yours but I figured I’d let you know if you wanted to pick up a few tips.” Always have this prepared before your phone call after the first date. This way, if she was semi-interested in you and let’s her phone go to voicemail, you have just increased your chances substantially of her calling you back.
She will love the fact that you actually listened to what she was saying and took an active interest in it. She’ll be amazed because I highly doubt any other guys have ever done this, thereby making you different and interesting.
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