Have you ever wondered why women just “leave” men and put an end to a relationship – out of the blue – without any particular reason?
Everything seemed to be going fine and suddenly, you find yourself all alone… Well if you’ve been in a relationship before, you’ve probably noticed that at some point, your girl seemed to be lacking interest in you.
And you start getting little signs you weren’t getting in the past, you don’t know what’s wrong but you can feel that something is changing.
I’ve identified 8 signs that come back very often when a woman is close to breaking up. Watch out for these signs, and start calling the shots again.
Bad sign number 1: She writes and calls less often
This is a first sign to look out for. In the initial stages of a relationship, it is perfectly normal to be writing and calling each other a lot.
But after some time, things usually tend to cool down a little. Still, she has to be writing as much as you write her, and calling as much as you do.
If you’re doing all the writing and all the calling, realize that she has a phone and can also keep in touch with you.
Bad sign number 2: Less physical contact
As time goes by, you should be getting to know each other better and better, and that should create more and more physical intimacy between the two of you.
Yet if after a couple of weeks or months your girl seems to be hugging and kissing you a whole lot less, that might be another sign. And since we’re talking about physical contact, pay attention to your sexual habits.
If you notice that your girl is just not into making out anymore, stop initiating contact.
Just stop being the first one to try doing something in bed.
You see, if you always initiate sex, your girl will always be the one to accept or refuse, you hand her the control.
Remember that you have to be in control at all times, so just lay back and let her do something.
If you’ve always been all over her, laying back a bit will have her asking herself: “what’s wrong, aren’t I attractive anymore?”.
You see, the less you try to initiate sex with a woman, the more you’ll have her asking herself for which reason you aren’t into it anymore, and she’ll be dying to conquer you back.
Bad sign number 3: She laughs a lot less
If in the early days you used to be able to make your girl laugh like she’s never laughed before, and now she’s just nodding when you say something, you might have a problem.
She might be a bit bored of hearing your stories. It’s maybe nothing to worry about, but it’s a sign.
To counter that kind of issue, the best thing to do is to become less available for some time, a couple of days for example.
Remember that being available all the time is really not a good solution if you want to build a long-lasting relationship.
By becoming unavailable for a day or two, you get her to think about you even more.
Bad sign number 4: You have the impression of bothering her
You have that awful and horrible feeling that you’re bothering or choking her a little.
And the last thing you want to hear is her saying that she needs a bit of space.
As you know that the key is to remain in control of the relationship, just take a couple of days off. Find a GOOD and plausible excuse, just tell her you have a lot of work to do, you’re working on a project, anything that is realistic and not offending to her, and become unavailable for a couple of days.
Don’t call her as often as would (but be funny and refreshing when you talk), and don’t answer her messages right away.
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