It‘s premised that this article shows how to meet quality people in the net because the internet reveals itself a tool that allows to meet far more people than in the “real“ life.
To meet people by the internet is quite simple: just search Google by the query “penpals“ or by anything that comes to your mind as “singles“ for example and you‘ll find some nice sites, at the same time you could have already some good ones in your bookmarks.
Ok, you have found some very nice profiles and you‘ve got in touch with them but right now you need to bring some fresh air in your life and so you want to know some interesting people: here you‘ll find how to do it.
Keep in mind that for quality people is meant quality people to YOU and so for you quality people can be intelligent people able to share intelligent talks while another person could think to quality people as people able to make you laugh and to print a nice smile on your face so for us the term quality is very generic. First of all we want to spend some words about attaching a picture to your profile or to the ad you‘ve put: it‘s very important the picture because if it‘s true that people uploading a picture have more probabilities to be contacted, it‘s also true that a bad photo can reduce the importance of what you‘ve expressed in your ad. It‘s granted that probably you don‘t look like George Clooney or Claudia Schiffer but anyway it‘s important that you don‘t upload the first picture that you find but one that you feel very comfortable with. Also there‘re people that are photogenic at other that are not at all, so if you don‘t feel comfortable with your picture maybe it‘s better that you don‘t upload it or that you ask from a professional photographer to do a nice portrait of you. Look is not important in some sites but in others it‘s essential...
The things you write in your ad are very important because people browsing your ad will browse others and so you have to do your best to be interesting to others but at the same time you don‘t want hundred of people writing to you but just from the ones you‘ll feel very comfortable with. Doing this is very hard and is different for every person, remember what is quality to me is not quality to you and viceversa. You‘ll place an ad and you‘ll meet some people then you‘ll realize what to write in your next ad to avoid to meet the people that are not at the height of your requirements. It‘s not easy to meet nice people and some sites feature a list of their ads in which the newest ads are in the top of the list: so today you‘re at the top of the list and after a month only few people will browse until they find your ad, so write your ads and in the same sites write others periodically as this will convey more people to your ad. It‘s important that you apply this concept not just to one site but to every site you post, more you‘ll post and more people will get in touch with you through your ad.
At this point many people will select your ad and will write and so also people that claim to have a huge eredity but that don‘t have a bank account and that ask for the coordinates of your bank account to make the transfer: they‘re FRAUDS as the people that will write to you attaching very nice pictures and that will ask money to afford the trip needed to visit you. They‘re frauds and so treat them as they deserve, be nice also to the sites that are hosting your ad and that offers it as a free service to you, show gratitude to them and reveal to them the people that are annoying you, doing this you‘ll make these sites work better and you‘ll get benefit from it too.
Another thing you want to consider is to select sites that are used by people that have something in common with you: there‘re boards designed for people that practice a certain sport, others that are focused on a certain hobby and others that are about a certain art. In this way you‘ll find people that will make easy to set an interesting conversation maybe starting from what you‘ve in common and then moving to explore each other personality. We want to spend also attention to the sites that are thought as meeting places for people belonging to a certain religion or that are interested to a certain kind of philosophy, since such sites can be designed to give room to everyone that professes to follow a religion or just to the ones that are indeed active in practicing a cult then will need to be evaluated properly as we can be sure that, for example, devoted Muslims prefer to meet other devoted Muslims as Jehovah‘s witnesses want to meet only active Jehovah‘s witnesses.
We want to summarize what we‘ve said in few rules:
1) First, look for some nice sites that give you opportunity to meet new people, browse their ads and keep in mind that more sites you‘ll browse and more quality people you‘ll have opportunity to meet.
2) write carefully your ad and not just write the first things that come in your mind as in this way you‘ll be more probable to meet the people you really want to meet. Same thing for your picture: be careful about it.
3) post on many sites and periodically repost on them so many people will get in touch with you through your ad and so will be more probable to meet nice people.
...and with these three key points i end here wishing you to meet quality people.
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In my past i‘ve met very interesting people and with this article i have shared some nice things that i‘ve learnt from my personal experiences, right now i‘m focused on the development of www.jwfriends.net“>jwfriends.net that wants to be a meeting place for quality Jehovah‘s witnesses.
