SO.......
How do women treat themselves:
Russian woman knows that she is a woman and she likes it... deep inside she feels like a tender, weak and beautiful being created to have a family and children. American woman knows that she is a personality and she has the same rights as any man to show her worth. So she doesn't differ from him much in her inner world :).
Women's appearance:
Russian woman are slim enough in most cases. American ones... - we don't have the data. Russian women use make up, pay much attention to their hair-does, dye hair and use nail varnish. American women seldom use make up to intensify their brightness. It is considered to be a bad taste as "only prostitutes use bright make up and luxuriant hair-does".
Clothes:
Russian woman do their best to be beautiful. They dress sexually enough. They prefer slinky clothes, gauzy ones, and any other that would accentuate and show :) all values of their figure: bust, slim legs, hips... To loose her sexuality for a Russian woman means to loose her feminity namely high self-esteem. BUT this sexuality is not the one which aims at making sex only. It is the urge to be desired, that is to say a woman any man seeks after and wants to gain.
American women dress up in rather baggy clothes. They put on clothes that hide all particular qualities of the figure, breast, legs. There is a wide-spread opinion in Russia that American women are always dressed in wide jeans, sneakers, football jersey, and T-shirt on it. And there is a personality under it all. This way being of dressed is an absolute lack of taste from a Russian woman's viewpoint. This is concerned with the fact that slinky dresses, short skirts and gauzy mantelets in America only movie stars and women who make hints about sex to men wear (but only at home).
Creating a family, children:
For American women family has to consist of two parents for a child that of course affects his development positively :). But men sometimes hinder them in this pedagogical process.
Russian woman are for a family. They are wifes... and a child for them is a happiness they may give to themselves and to the beloved husband. The aim of a family is to live for a long time and to die on one day together with the husband surrouded by children, grandchilren and great-grandchilren. A family is precious by itself. Married woman has a higher status in society. To save the family they would endure matirial problems their husbands may have. The scale of priority for a Russian lady is the following: first she is a wife, then a mother, and after it she thinks about professionalism and career.
Sex:
Sex is good , especially when everybody is happy. This subject was closed for discussion for a long time in Russia. And now...sex is a fun, it tones up and confuses. At last we have understood the meaning of flirting!
Concerning jokes...
In Ukraine they say: "Every satisfied Ukrainian woman is a step to satisfied Ukraine". And one more: "There is a portion of a joke in every joke"... So, the conclusion is the following: sexual satisfaction in the FSU is an emotional and important subject. And women are made responsible for their satisfaction (this responsibility is almost of a national standart). Sexual satisfaction and family happiness are two values standing close to each other. That is why there are only 80 divorces among 100 marriages:).
American women's attitude to sex is more simple...They may discuss quite easily there oral sex experience in front of the camera on some TV channel. Sex is what is allowed, needed and useful. But it is not necessarily connected with marriage. Men and women are equal in their "sexual rights". And that is why women are more demanding. The destiny of America doesn't depend on American woman's satisfaction and that means that you can make experiments. It seems the Americans have reached great results with these experiments. That is the reason why they don't hasten with marriage and having children who are resulted from the usual trite sex. That is why there are 100 contracted marriages among 300 non contracted in America:).
Women's expectations from men, their fears and anxieties:
Russian women want to meet a well-provided, handsome man with whom they can feel like "behind the stone wall" ,have no fears and feel secure and safe. The DREAM is a sincere and devoted husband who will be beside in spite of everything and who will take them as they are with all their hysterics... BUT quite often women marry those who love them very much and who is persistent in his love forgetting about material well-being, reliability etc. Russian women are tolerant to men and they are ready to do a lot for the sake of their beloved man (for instance to go to Siberia to her husband a revolutionary)...and this is the reason for them to suffer. They love to suffer in general. Big sad eyes make Russian women more beautiful. And what man can resist the temptation to comfort beautiful Russian woman!?:)
Russian women are scared that their men might leave them, part with because of mistress, or start drinking hard. They are scared to take initiative to start relationship with a man. That is why they make manicure, dress sexily and sit in front of the open window waiting for a prince on a golden horse who will see her, fall head over heels in love with them, pursue and win her with his love. Ones who finally ended meeting anyone at all, marry him. And those who have a bigger potential of hope place their picture of "herself beautiful by the window" and wait there for American and European princes to come...
Women from America want a man do not disturb them while they are busy with this important work of creating a family. They are more exacting to relations in a marriage. They are the head in a family as the law is on their side. That is why American (and European) men don't dare to create a family. They need to get firmly established to be able to defend their possession in the case of divorce. The bride from America is a big and expensive gift for a man who having received it has to realize how lucky he is :).
American women fear that their love would not be appreciated enough by a man who would act the way she understood that she was not the person he could take seriously. In fact they are quite sensitive to the problems with the relationship, but in emergency situations prefer to act aggressively rather than suffer as "powerless Russian beauties".
Gender equality
is a funny subject!!!
There is a point of view in Russia that the chase for the equalization of man and woman have reached the absolute marasmus and leads to the fact that both are becoming not interesting not only as a persons but also as a carrier of its own gender.
Women fade away as men are scared to show consideration to them. Men pine and suffer indigestion as they more and more often have to restrain their man's desires. For gender equality to crow over forever you just need to teach men how to become pregnant or to deprive women of it. Though the first thing is better as everybody fears demographical decrease. It is a bit unfair even from the point of view of simple financial expenses: men all around the world spend more money on beer than women... let them also buy tampons... then we'll see how much they will have for beer! It looks like in Russia the attempt to make women and men equal ended with the result that women understood at last that it is good to be women: beautiful, sexy, loving and with family. But men having seen so many beautiful women got lost and fall into inferiority complex. And while they are being frozen our best and most beautiful ladies go away to those men who appreciate them and who miss normal, healthy relationship between man and woman. That means they go to Americans and Europeans.
http://www.articlefair.com/Article/Russian-or-American-Women---who-are-better-/27770
