The reality is most of guys are just way too easy. Unfortunately, this is not attractive to women. The common mistake is that when guys receive the 'signals of interest' from women (for example, when they smile, ask you questions, touch you, etc), they get comfortable and immediately move to develop rapport with the women. Unfortunately, this is a mistake, and often they will find that their target would lose interest in them.
Here's an instant formula on how to be more attractive to women. Stop being easy.
The reality is most guys are just way too easy. The common mistake is that when guys receive the 'signals of interest' from women (for example, when they smile, ask you questions, touch you, etc), they get comfortable and immediately move to develop rapport with the women. Unfortunately, this is a mistake, and often they will find that their target would lose soon interest in them.
The reason for this is that often a woman would yearn for a man who challenges her. She wants the feeling of not being able to get the man without substantial effort. She wants to work to be rewarded. If she thinks that she has sorted you out and has you under her thumb, you will gradually lose her interest.
The solution to this is simple. Continually keep her guessing by using this technique called the 'push-pull'. If you want to retain her interest, be more unpredictable and create more tension in the interaction. The reason women are attracted to jerks is exactly this. Jerks are challenging, and they keep women guessing about what's coming next.
However, I am not recommending you to be an all-out jerk in order to be more attractive to women. By being a jerk, you will eventually push her away, which defeats your purpose. The key here is to balance being challenging and cocky with humor and empathy. The true player knows how to calibrate and carefully paces the interaction between himself and the woman she desires so that he is challenging but remains accessible at the same time.
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