You've seen him-we all have. That guy from across the room who makes our heart skip a beat, who leaves us breathless, who we've found an instant attraction to. Is he the one? Is he Mr. Right or Mr. Right-Now? If he's Mr. Right, how do we get him to come to us and be interested?
It doesn't matter who the guy is-it could be the new guy at work, someone you saw at the grocery store or someone from around your neighborhood. It could even be a guy you've known for sometime and are just now finding attractive and interest in.
If it's someone you already know and now you're falling in love, you don't want to scare him away if he doesn't feel the same way you do. How do you get him to fall in love with you without getting clingy or weird and without scaring him off? There are a few crucial moves that a woman can make in order to get Mr. Right to fall in love with her.
Improve your appearance-make sure you are healthy and that you are appealing. Your hair, teeth, nails and skin should be appealing, clean and in good repair. Feel good about yourself and be confident-making sure you are appealing will increase your self-esteem. This will attract the guy-guys like women who are confident in themselves.
Ask your girlfriends what your blind spots are-these are weaknesses you have that you just don't know about. A good girlfriend will tell you exactly what they are-maybe you have bad breath and don't know it, maybe your excessive swearing is noticeable, maybe you are a gossip queen or you just have bad manners.
Find out what your weaknesses are and find out how to fix them. Your girlfriend or girlfriends can help so that you can bolster the crucial positive impression you are trying to make on Mr. Right. However, don't be someone you aren't either-the true you should still shine through. No one is perfect, and everyone is allowed to have some flaws, don't be afraid to be who you are, selling yourself as someone you aren't will only destroy a relationship.
People skills-get your people skills in order. You need to avoid arguments, start off conversations in a friendly manner, talk nicely, be nice and give compliments that are sincere. You should always work to make whomever you are talking to feel important-don't wave them off or drift out of the conversation-really listen to what they are saying. Remember, this is Mr. Right and you are trying to get him to fall for you. Don't be afraid to disagree, but don't put down their fundamental beliefs either-everyone is entitled to their opinion, but that doesn't mean that theirs is wrong and yours is right.
Small talk is important too-have something nice to say and say it well. Use appropriate emotions when you are talking, know when to not talk and focus more on listening to him than on hearing your own voice.
Let yourself be real to him-lower your guard a bit and admit some of your shortcomings. Tease him tastefully-all in an effort to get him to lower his guard a bit, this way he can learn who you really are.
Let him know all the 'you' there is to know-the hottie, the sweetie and the real you. Spend some time highlighting the hottie you-the feminine and sexy qualities that you possess. Let him see your warm, caring and kind you-the sweetie that you are. Also let him see who you are normally-the real you with your strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes and your personality.
Lead him to an emotional moment-when the emotions are high, be your best self. This will impact him in more ways than any subtlety can. These moments are the ones that imprint into his heart and soul that he will remember.
Don't play too hard to get-those things that are elusive are things men will eventually just give up on. Also, don't get clingy too fast-you don't have to call him 50 times a day to let him know you're thinking of him. Once is fine...give the man some space to be with his thoughts about you without the constant (and nagging) reminder that you are attached to him.
Be attractive and sexy-not overbearing and cheap. Keep your morals and values and don't overextend yourself-if you are cheap and easy, you won't make a lasting impression, just a fast one. Something worth keeping requires work on his behalf too.
Have fun and don't forget to be a friend as well to your Mr. Right. In no time, he will be head over heels in love with the real you.http://www.singlescafe.net/get-mister-right.html?authorname=Cucan%20Pemo
