Have you ever fancied other men?
Does you heart skip a beat staring at robust young guys?
Have you ever got aroused looking at erotic pictures of hot males?
Then, you might be gay…
So what??? There’s nothing to worry about. Obviously, the term ‘gay’ refers to those people who feel sexually attracted towards the persons of the same sex. The word can be used both as noun as well as adjective. Though often applied specifically for the men who have same-sex orientation, ‘gay’ may indicate all people from the LGBT (Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender) community, which has remained marginalized for quite long in our society. Having the original meanings ‘happy’, ‘carefree’ and ‘bright and showy’, the word got sexual overtones during the later parts of the 17th century. In contemporary usage, the word ‘gay’ that signifies the eagerness of closing the eyes to traditional sexual ways of life has actually a deep-rooted association with its original meaning of being ‘happy-go-lucky and candid’. There are references of gay relationships in some literatures of the 1920s. Gradually, the term got acceptance as an antonym for the word ‘straight’, which refers to heterosexual man and women or people having sexual inclination towards the persons of the opposite sex. From the 1960s, homosexual men started to call themselves as gay. There is a preconceived notion among a major section of people that gay guys are effeminate and polygamous. But, it’s not necessary that all gay men behave in that way. These traits vary from person to person. Though some of them might act in that manner, others do not. Despite the fact that there was a time when homosexuality was considered as ‘mental illness’, by 1973, DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) made it clear that it is not an illness at all. The American Psychological Association (APA) too has struck out homosexuality from its list of mental disorders long before.
There’s nothing wrong in being gay. Some people are born this way. Like being straight, it is just another natural way of expressing one’s sexuality. Being gay and having gay affairs is as natural as getting into a relationship with a person from the opposite sex. Sexual desires come from within a person. They cannot be forced. There are some biological differences between gay and straight people. When people are born, they already have their sexuality determined. There are evidences that our sexual orientation is largely influenced by the hypothalamus part of our brains. But the actual reasons behind a person’s being gay is still an area of debate and researchers are coming up with some new explanations each day or the other.
During our teenage days, most of us must have felt gay tendencies at some points of our lives. But, it is not necessary that all of our teenaged fantasies will linger forever. Once a person in his late teens or early twenties feel strong attraction towards another man, then it’s for sure that he is gay. Some people, who harbor gay feelings at young age, may not feel the same with growing age. On the other hand, there are instances that a person has become aware of his true sexual callings after spending years of married life. In other words, in some people, gay sexual desires are strong from the very onset of puberty whereas the others can take longer period to realize their exact nature. It’s up to the person how he has come in terms with his sexuality or whether he has accepted himself as a gay individual. Once he becomes comfortable with himself, then convincing others won’t require much efforts. If the gay person is blessed with supportive parents and family, then it’s even more fun for him.
With the prejudice against gay people are decreasing, they are getting a chance to enjoy their lives to the fullest. As our society becoming more liberal towards such persons and more sensitive towards gay issues, there’s no need to be ashamed of being gay anymore. A closeted sexual life is not at all desirable. It’s great to ‘come out’ than to enter into a lifelong repression. So, isn’t it better to get into a sexual relationship with a person of your choice from the same sex than to go for a sham marriage? The fact lies here that there’s no way of stopping a person from being gay. If he has such genetic configurations that are making him turned on by other men, then there’s nothing he can do to become a straight guy. Various websites have come up where gay men log in for getting not only the right kind of same-sex partners, but also discuss about their innermost sexual cravings, secret encounters with men and other ‘gay’ related topics. There are gay support groups and telephonic helplines in most of the countries. The organizational representatives are always there to provide you ample information on the topic and guide you in your life, which may be different from that of the majority of the people, but still has its own rainbows, its own joys and tears. Meanwhile, we all can hope for a better tomorrow for all gay people from all corners of the world…
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/What-It-Means-To-Be-Gay/123458
Saturday, September 1, 2007
I Am Gay, Am I Normal?
Feeling low? Confused? Puzzled? Frustrated? And the root cause behind all these ill feelings is just one thing…you have realized that you feel attracted towards the members of same-sex and YOU ARE GAY!!!… Come on, there’s nothing to worry about. It’s a well-acknowledged fact that all you gay guys are absolutely normal. You do not choose your sexual orientations; they are mostly determined at the time of birth. The role that biological factors play in this regard can never be ignored. There may be other significant factors too, but still nobody is sure about them. Generally, sexual orientation of a person is established well before he/she reaches puberty.
You must be worrying a lot regarding your sexual preference, but believe me, there’s nothing to get upset about. Homosexuality is as normal as heterosexuality is. Getting attracted towards the members of the same-sex is quite natural. Never ever start thinking that you have got a disease and you are going to cure it with the help of medical treatments and therapies!!! Try to come in terms with your sexuality and be comfortable with it. Keep yourself away from pretending as a straight person. It won’t take you anywhere. You will remain as you are. One can never be forced to become straight or the other way round. Stay happy, be gay and search for a perfect partner. Please remain true to your nature, keep your cool and focus on developing your relationship with the person who can satisfy you sexually and support you emotionally. Don’t try to act too smart and marry someone for the heck of it.
You are the best person to judge your true sexual callings; and let not others interfere in your business. It’s your life and you are the only person to decide how you want to live it and with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. During our teenaged days, most of us must have had same-sex experiences. But, only having homosexual encounters or experimenting with people from the same sex doesn’t make a person gay. Once your mere curiosity turns into a habit and you start enjoying every bit of your gay escapades, you can be sure that you are gay. Now it’s up to you whether you want to remain in closet for long or come out in open. It’s always better to breathe the fresh air of honesty than to lead a repressed life.
It has been years since psychiatrists have removed homosexuality from the list of mental disorders. So, there’s no reason of feeling bad about one’s own self. You are required to do lots of introspection before you come to conclusion regarding your sexuality. Once you ask yourself ‘Am I gay’ and your heart answers back ‘YES’, then it’s absolutely fine! Here, the issue is with whom do you REALLY WANT TO have sex with, not whom you HAVE TO make love. Hiding your sexuality for too long can take a toll on you.
Being gay can never make you any less of a person. In the fields of arts and literature, in the world of entertainment, in the sports arena – gay people are everywhere. Just because you don’t know any gay person personally should not make you feel isolated. ‘People who were sexually abused at a young age and have dysfunctional families grow up to become gay’ this is one of the greatest myths that surround gay people. Being gay has nothing to do with all these things. So, the time has come to get over with all your self-denials and start your life afresh.
Don’t get afraid of the society. There are loads are people who will definitely identify with your situation. Then, there are sensible people too, who regardless of their sexual orientation, always stood by gay people. If some close members of your family are taking too long to accept you as you are, then take him/her to the psychiatrists or counselors who will teach them a lesson on how normal being gay is. The gay support organizations can also be of tremendous assistance. They can give a ‘brainwash’ to your insensitive relatives who are hell-bent to prove that you are doing a sin by getting into gay relations.
Don’t keep your natural urges confined for long. Let them flow through their normal course. Stop getting depressed mulling over that something has gone awfully wrong in you. Instead, concentrate on your future and try to build a proper relationship with honesty and sincerity. Approximately 10% of the global population has same sex preference. The community may be a marginalized section of the society, but its doesn’t mean that there’s anything abnormal with them, just like there’s nothing wrong with the left-handed population.
When you discuss about the issue with your friends and colleagues, there are chances that a few of them may even admit their homosexual inclinations. All these things will certainly make you realize that you are not the only person in this world who is gay. There are hordes of other people who are constantly fighting with their own self and trying to come out. Just browse through the Internet and you may stumble upon a person whose feelings and experiences are much like yours. As most persons remain anonymous while chatting in the net, they feel free to reveal their true emotions. Meeting more and more like-minded people can surely help you to become more at ease with yourself and eventually, rejuvenate your spirit. Who knows, you may strike the right chord with any of them and ask him out for a date instantly.
Hope, all your apprehensions are over at last and now, you are dying for a passionate affair with the man you have dreamt for so long…so, wishing you a very happy and GAY life!
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/I-Am-Gay--Am-I-Normal-/123755
You must be worrying a lot regarding your sexual preference, but believe me, there’s nothing to get upset about. Homosexuality is as normal as heterosexuality is. Getting attracted towards the members of the same-sex is quite natural. Never ever start thinking that you have got a disease and you are going to cure it with the help of medical treatments and therapies!!! Try to come in terms with your sexuality and be comfortable with it. Keep yourself away from pretending as a straight person. It won’t take you anywhere. You will remain as you are. One can never be forced to become straight or the other way round. Stay happy, be gay and search for a perfect partner. Please remain true to your nature, keep your cool and focus on developing your relationship with the person who can satisfy you sexually and support you emotionally. Don’t try to act too smart and marry someone for the heck of it.
You are the best person to judge your true sexual callings; and let not others interfere in your business. It’s your life and you are the only person to decide how you want to live it and with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. During our teenaged days, most of us must have had same-sex experiences. But, only having homosexual encounters or experimenting with people from the same sex doesn’t make a person gay. Once your mere curiosity turns into a habit and you start enjoying every bit of your gay escapades, you can be sure that you are gay. Now it’s up to you whether you want to remain in closet for long or come out in open. It’s always better to breathe the fresh air of honesty than to lead a repressed life.
It has been years since psychiatrists have removed homosexuality from the list of mental disorders. So, there’s no reason of feeling bad about one’s own self. You are required to do lots of introspection before you come to conclusion regarding your sexuality. Once you ask yourself ‘Am I gay’ and your heart answers back ‘YES’, then it’s absolutely fine! Here, the issue is with whom do you REALLY WANT TO have sex with, not whom you HAVE TO make love. Hiding your sexuality for too long can take a toll on you.
Being gay can never make you any less of a person. In the fields of arts and literature, in the world of entertainment, in the sports arena – gay people are everywhere. Just because you don’t know any gay person personally should not make you feel isolated. ‘People who were sexually abused at a young age and have dysfunctional families grow up to become gay’ this is one of the greatest myths that surround gay people. Being gay has nothing to do with all these things. So, the time has come to get over with all your self-denials and start your life afresh.
Don’t get afraid of the society. There are loads are people who will definitely identify with your situation. Then, there are sensible people too, who regardless of their sexual orientation, always stood by gay people. If some close members of your family are taking too long to accept you as you are, then take him/her to the psychiatrists or counselors who will teach them a lesson on how normal being gay is. The gay support organizations can also be of tremendous assistance. They can give a ‘brainwash’ to your insensitive relatives who are hell-bent to prove that you are doing a sin by getting into gay relations.
Don’t keep your natural urges confined for long. Let them flow through their normal course. Stop getting depressed mulling over that something has gone awfully wrong in you. Instead, concentrate on your future and try to build a proper relationship with honesty and sincerity. Approximately 10% of the global population has same sex preference. The community may be a marginalized section of the society, but its doesn’t mean that there’s anything abnormal with them, just like there’s nothing wrong with the left-handed population.
When you discuss about the issue with your friends and colleagues, there are chances that a few of them may even admit their homosexual inclinations. All these things will certainly make you realize that you are not the only person in this world who is gay. There are hordes of other people who are constantly fighting with their own self and trying to come out. Just browse through the Internet and you may stumble upon a person whose feelings and experiences are much like yours. As most persons remain anonymous while chatting in the net, they feel free to reveal their true emotions. Meeting more and more like-minded people can surely help you to become more at ease with yourself and eventually, rejuvenate your spirit. Who knows, you may strike the right chord with any of them and ask him out for a date instantly.
Hope, all your apprehensions are over at last and now, you are dying for a passionate affair with the man you have dreamt for so long…so, wishing you a very happy and GAY life!
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/I-Am-Gay--Am-I-Normal-/123755
What Makes A Good Lover?
Visualize: You have arrived at your friend’s house for some important work. Even after ringing doorbell for long, you found none to open the front door. Being heavily impatient, you apply a little push on the door and it opens immediately. Within dim light you found a blonde teenager taking bath wearing nothing…only drizzling sound is coming from a glass-walled bath that brazenly covers sharp curves of her….
What would be your reaction after finding yourself just outside that glass-enclosure? You would probably try to unearth more fun through peeping!!! You can give hundreds of blind excuses for such behavior, but you can’t deny of becoming a victim of raw sexual desire at that point of time. A man’s stomach stirs up like a mixer grinder when he encounters such incident. Men fall in love to be loved by their counterparts.
Besides all those equations of attractions, life-long partnership, friendship and social customary – sex… drives men to fall in love. Every individual of the male populace awaits ultimate pleasure at the kick-start of any new relationship. They look around for suitable time and place to fulfill their physical desire. Statistically, a considerable number of men think of friendship keeping the desire in mind to mature it to love, social marriage, and fruitful sexual life, provided everything floats smoothly. But all men don’t have all these psychology in mind at the starting of a relationship. Outward beauty of opposite sex simply lures them and influences them to come in contact and spent hours together with some sweet and spicy moment.
Beauty is all spice for love!!! It is true to the strictest sense of the term. A man loses all his senses when he finds a bare white neck of a young cheeky girl…in the flash of a moment, he starts licking his tongue keeping an utmost desire in mind to ‘KISS’ that area for quite a long period of time. Dreamy eyes, rosy lips or broad foreheads are some of the physical aspects that make the hearts of men beat at a faster rate. Their hearts teem up with ecstasy when they find cleavage through an unbuttoned shirt… that might have been kept open to show the inner part intentionally or to feel cool in a summer evening. Men at their budding youth would definitely peep to see ‘what lies beneath’ - that swelling zone through the slit. He would probably wish to fondle with those balls keeping aside all worldly things for that moment.
Men fall in love not only because of sexy boobs or oversized back, but also for serene beauty and gorgeousness reflecting out of facial expressions and personality. Compared to flabby women, the slimmer ones are mostly in demand. Vocal tone also allures men to come closer to opposite sex. It is observed quite often that men prefer intelligence and sense of judgment to choose their girlfriend. Cheeky gals use sweet smell or flowery perfume to get attracted by their male friends. They also wear different apparel – short, thin and transparent to lure the men-folk.
Falling in love does not follow any specific rules of law, it comes naturally and spontaneously. Most of the men species like to flirt with girls at their youth. Flirting may be of different kinds and of various dimensions. Suppose you are traveling in a bus and are bored of tiresome journey of a long distance. Meantime you chanced to look at a wonderful girl sitting at your nearest seat. What would be your first reaction??? You would definitely give a sharp glance to that girl - flashing top to bottom and again in the opposite direction - pausing for a moment you would continue to give killing glance to create an opportunity to talk to her. Even she does not show any interest to interact through words, you would probably try to earn some interest through your staring. Gradually, the situation would be melt in your favor and that gal might show flick of interest, which is enough to start a conversation leading to friendship. Can you tell why young male behave such?
The answer is very simple but smart. Within every individual, there lay some interesting things to look at. Someone is attractively fair; someone is considerably tall while the other one possess the sexiest figure with amazing curves at certain points. Eye-catching lips and mesmerizing eyes, soft cheeks are also points of consideration at the time of falling in love.
Other than physical beauty, innate qualities of girls also attract male. Intellectuality, way of expression, style of conversation, fashion and the most important thing is urge for having sex allure boys to come in contact to their opposite sex. Above all, sex is the essence of love; it works more than nothing else. From day-to-day experience, it has been found that men prefer to be fallen in love to look for beauty and also to satisfy their sexual desire.
At the outset, men observe what their opposite sex prefers!!! They want to test their gal friend through sex talks and continue to do more until they both decide to make a relationship. There is no point denying the fact that maturity, intelligence and personal preference play significant roles to take any affair to a complete one, but sex is one such area that cannot be avoided at the time of falling in love.
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/What-Makes-A-Good-Lover-/123757
What would be your reaction after finding yourself just outside that glass-enclosure? You would probably try to unearth more fun through peeping!!! You can give hundreds of blind excuses for such behavior, but you can’t deny of becoming a victim of raw sexual desire at that point of time. A man’s stomach stirs up like a mixer grinder when he encounters such incident. Men fall in love to be loved by their counterparts.
Besides all those equations of attractions, life-long partnership, friendship and social customary – sex… drives men to fall in love. Every individual of the male populace awaits ultimate pleasure at the kick-start of any new relationship. They look around for suitable time and place to fulfill their physical desire. Statistically, a considerable number of men think of friendship keeping the desire in mind to mature it to love, social marriage, and fruitful sexual life, provided everything floats smoothly. But all men don’t have all these psychology in mind at the starting of a relationship. Outward beauty of opposite sex simply lures them and influences them to come in contact and spent hours together with some sweet and spicy moment.
Beauty is all spice for love!!! It is true to the strictest sense of the term. A man loses all his senses when he finds a bare white neck of a young cheeky girl…in the flash of a moment, he starts licking his tongue keeping an utmost desire in mind to ‘KISS’ that area for quite a long period of time. Dreamy eyes, rosy lips or broad foreheads are some of the physical aspects that make the hearts of men beat at a faster rate. Their hearts teem up with ecstasy when they find cleavage through an unbuttoned shirt… that might have been kept open to show the inner part intentionally or to feel cool in a summer evening. Men at their budding youth would definitely peep to see ‘what lies beneath’ - that swelling zone through the slit. He would probably wish to fondle with those balls keeping aside all worldly things for that moment.
Men fall in love not only because of sexy boobs or oversized back, but also for serene beauty and gorgeousness reflecting out of facial expressions and personality. Compared to flabby women, the slimmer ones are mostly in demand. Vocal tone also allures men to come closer to opposite sex. It is observed quite often that men prefer intelligence and sense of judgment to choose their girlfriend. Cheeky gals use sweet smell or flowery perfume to get attracted by their male friends. They also wear different apparel – short, thin and transparent to lure the men-folk.
Falling in love does not follow any specific rules of law, it comes naturally and spontaneously. Most of the men species like to flirt with girls at their youth. Flirting may be of different kinds and of various dimensions. Suppose you are traveling in a bus and are bored of tiresome journey of a long distance. Meantime you chanced to look at a wonderful girl sitting at your nearest seat. What would be your first reaction??? You would definitely give a sharp glance to that girl - flashing top to bottom and again in the opposite direction - pausing for a moment you would continue to give killing glance to create an opportunity to talk to her. Even she does not show any interest to interact through words, you would probably try to earn some interest through your staring. Gradually, the situation would be melt in your favor and that gal might show flick of interest, which is enough to start a conversation leading to friendship. Can you tell why young male behave such?
The answer is very simple but smart. Within every individual, there lay some interesting things to look at. Someone is attractively fair; someone is considerably tall while the other one possess the sexiest figure with amazing curves at certain points. Eye-catching lips and mesmerizing eyes, soft cheeks are also points of consideration at the time of falling in love.
Other than physical beauty, innate qualities of girls also attract male. Intellectuality, way of expression, style of conversation, fashion and the most important thing is urge for having sex allure boys to come in contact to their opposite sex. Above all, sex is the essence of love; it works more than nothing else. From day-to-day experience, it has been found that men prefer to be fallen in love to look for beauty and also to satisfy their sexual desire.
At the outset, men observe what their opposite sex prefers!!! They want to test their gal friend through sex talks and continue to do more until they both decide to make a relationship. There is no point denying the fact that maturity, intelligence and personal preference play significant roles to take any affair to a complete one, but sex is one such area that cannot be avoided at the time of falling in love.
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/What-Makes-A-Good-Lover-/123757
What Makes Men Fall In Love?
Visualize: You have arrived at your friend’s house for some important work. Even after ringing doorbell for long, you found none to open the front door. Being heavily impatient, you apply a little push on the door and it opens immediately. Within dim light you found a blonde teenager taking bath wearing nothing…only drizzling sound is coming from a glass-walled bath that brazenly covers sharp curves of her….
What would be your reaction after finding yourself just outside that glass-enclosure? You would probably try to unearth more fun through peeping!!! You can give hundreds of blind excuses for such behavior, but you can’t deny of becoming a victim of raw sexual desire at that point of time. A man’s stomach stirs up like a mixer grinder when he encounters such incident. Men fall in love to be loved by their counterparts.
Besides all those equations of attractions, life-long partnership, friendship and social customary – sex… drives men to fall in love. Every individual of the male populace awaits ultimate pleasure at the kick-start of any new relationship. They look around for suitable time and place to fulfill their physical desire. Statistically, a considerable number of men think of friendship keeping the desire in mind to mature it to love, social marriage, and fruitful sexual life, provided everything floats smoothly. But all men don’t have all these psychology in mind at the starting of a relationship. Outward beauty of opposite sex simply lures them and influences them to come in contact and spent hours together with some sweet and spicy moment.
Beauty is all spice for love!!! It is true to the strictest sense of the term. A man loses all his senses when he finds a bare white neck of a young cheeky girl…in the flash of a moment, he starts licking his tongue keeping an utmost desire in mind to ‘KISS’ that area for quite a long period of time. Dreamy eyes, rosy lips or broad foreheads are some of the physical aspects that make the hearts of men beat at a faster rate. Their hearts teem up with ecstasy when they find cleavage through an unbuttoned shirt… that might have been kept open to show the inner part intentionally or to feel cool in a summer evening. Men at their budding youth would definitely peep to see ‘what lies beneath’ - that swelling zone through the slit. He would probably wish to fondle with those balls keeping aside all worldly things for that moment.
Men fall in love not only because of sexy boobs or oversized back, but also for serene beauty and gorgeousness reflecting out of facial expressions and personality. Compared to flabby women, the slimmer ones are mostly in demand. Vocal tone also allures men to come closer to opposite sex. It is observed quite often that men prefer intelligence and sense of judgment to choose their girlfriend. Cheeky gals use sweet smell or flowery perfume to get attracted by their male friends. They also wear different apparel – short, thin and transparent to lure the men-folk.
Falling in love does not follow any specific rules of law, it comes naturally and spontaneously. Most of the men species like to flirt with girls at their youth. Flirting may be of different kinds and of various dimensions. Suppose you are traveling in a bus and are bored of tiresome journey of a long distance. Meantime you chanced to look at a wonderful girl sitting at your nearest seat. What would be your first reaction??? You would definitely give a sharp glance to that girl - flashing top to bottom and again in the opposite direction - pausing for a moment you would continue to give killing glance to create an opportunity to talk to her. Even she does not show any interest to interact through words, you would probably try to earn some interest through your staring. Gradually, the situation would be melt in your favor and that gal might show flick of interest, which is enough to start a conversation leading to friendship. Can you tell why young male behave such?
The answer is very simple but smart. Within every individual, there lay some interesting things to look at. Someone is attractively fair; someone is considerably tall while the other one possess the sexiest figure with amazing curves at certain points. Eye-catching lips and mesmerizing eyes, soft cheeks are also points of consideration at the time of falling in love.
Other than physical beauty, innate qualities of girls also attract male. Intellectuality, way of expression, style of conversation, fashion and the most important thing is urge for having sex allure boys to come in contact to their opposite sex. Above all, sex is the essence of love; it works more than nothing else. From day-to-day experience, it has been found that men prefer to be fallen in love to look for beauty and also to satisfy their sexual desire.
At the outset, men observe what their opposite sex prefers!!! They want to test their gal friend through sex talks and continue to do more until they both decide to make a relationship. There is no point denying the fact that maturity, intelligence and personal preference play significant roles to take any affair to a complete one, but sex is one such area that cannot be avoided at the time of falling in love.
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/What-Makes-Men-Fall-In-Love-/123758
What would be your reaction after finding yourself just outside that glass-enclosure? You would probably try to unearth more fun through peeping!!! You can give hundreds of blind excuses for such behavior, but you can’t deny of becoming a victim of raw sexual desire at that point of time. A man’s stomach stirs up like a mixer grinder when he encounters such incident. Men fall in love to be loved by their counterparts.
Besides all those equations of attractions, life-long partnership, friendship and social customary – sex… drives men to fall in love. Every individual of the male populace awaits ultimate pleasure at the kick-start of any new relationship. They look around for suitable time and place to fulfill their physical desire. Statistically, a considerable number of men think of friendship keeping the desire in mind to mature it to love, social marriage, and fruitful sexual life, provided everything floats smoothly. But all men don’t have all these psychology in mind at the starting of a relationship. Outward beauty of opposite sex simply lures them and influences them to come in contact and spent hours together with some sweet and spicy moment.
Beauty is all spice for love!!! It is true to the strictest sense of the term. A man loses all his senses when he finds a bare white neck of a young cheeky girl…in the flash of a moment, he starts licking his tongue keeping an utmost desire in mind to ‘KISS’ that area for quite a long period of time. Dreamy eyes, rosy lips or broad foreheads are some of the physical aspects that make the hearts of men beat at a faster rate. Their hearts teem up with ecstasy when they find cleavage through an unbuttoned shirt… that might have been kept open to show the inner part intentionally or to feel cool in a summer evening. Men at their budding youth would definitely peep to see ‘what lies beneath’ - that swelling zone through the slit. He would probably wish to fondle with those balls keeping aside all worldly things for that moment.
Men fall in love not only because of sexy boobs or oversized back, but also for serene beauty and gorgeousness reflecting out of facial expressions and personality. Compared to flabby women, the slimmer ones are mostly in demand. Vocal tone also allures men to come closer to opposite sex. It is observed quite often that men prefer intelligence and sense of judgment to choose their girlfriend. Cheeky gals use sweet smell or flowery perfume to get attracted by their male friends. They also wear different apparel – short, thin and transparent to lure the men-folk.
Falling in love does not follow any specific rules of law, it comes naturally and spontaneously. Most of the men species like to flirt with girls at their youth. Flirting may be of different kinds and of various dimensions. Suppose you are traveling in a bus and are bored of tiresome journey of a long distance. Meantime you chanced to look at a wonderful girl sitting at your nearest seat. What would be your first reaction??? You would definitely give a sharp glance to that girl - flashing top to bottom and again in the opposite direction - pausing for a moment you would continue to give killing glance to create an opportunity to talk to her. Even she does not show any interest to interact through words, you would probably try to earn some interest through your staring. Gradually, the situation would be melt in your favor and that gal might show flick of interest, which is enough to start a conversation leading to friendship. Can you tell why young male behave such?
The answer is very simple but smart. Within every individual, there lay some interesting things to look at. Someone is attractively fair; someone is considerably tall while the other one possess the sexiest figure with amazing curves at certain points. Eye-catching lips and mesmerizing eyes, soft cheeks are also points of consideration at the time of falling in love.
Other than physical beauty, innate qualities of girls also attract male. Intellectuality, way of expression, style of conversation, fashion and the most important thing is urge for having sex allure boys to come in contact to their opposite sex. Above all, sex is the essence of love; it works more than nothing else. From day-to-day experience, it has been found that men prefer to be fallen in love to look for beauty and also to satisfy their sexual desire.
At the outset, men observe what their opposite sex prefers!!! They want to test their gal friend through sex talks and continue to do more until they both decide to make a relationship. There is no point denying the fact that maturity, intelligence and personal preference play significant roles to take any affair to a complete one, but sex is one such area that cannot be avoided at the time of falling in love.
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/What-Makes-Men-Fall-In-Love-/123758
Cheap Dates That Don't Make You Look Cheap
In every relationship, it is important that couples do things together to keep a closeness and intimacy in the emotional aspect of their partnership. It is great to go on a date where you buy your sweetheart a bottle of champagne that costs more than your cable bill for that month, or where the meal costs more than a week’s worth of groceries. However, while it is fun to splurge on an expensive, fancy, and romantic date, for most couples, this is not feasible financially to pull of more than a couple of times a month, if not less frequently. Though you sometimes can not afford to go on a costly date, it is still imperative to go out with each other, even if it is a cheap date idea.
Now some of you will cringe at the words cheap date idea. But think of the phrase used in a good context. Just because your date idea is inexpensive, doesn’t mean that you can’t have a fun cheap date idea. Do not sell short the perfection that can happen by just being with your partner one on one. Use creativity to be able to make up for spending lots of money, and your date will notice that you went all out personally instead of just financially. You will definitely be rewarded for the obvious effort that you have put in. Anyone can buy what it takes for a great date. It takes a special person to be able to come up with a cheap, creative, fun date idea.
When thinking of a date to take your loved one on, there are 3 essential things to remember. First, obviously, keep cost in mind. The goal is to have a fun cheap date, and while "fun" is very important, "cheap" is an important part of this date theme as well. Second, take into account what your significant other likes to do. This is important if you are going to have an enjoyable time. Try to find activities that interest both of you in your cheap date idea. A third thing to remember is to be yourself. The point of this date is NOT to show how much money you can toss around. As was said before, anyone can do that. This date is all about the togetherness and closeness that you make as your goal for the night. Forget the fact that you aren’t spending a lot of money to keep up with the "Jones’" date. Just remember that this date is all about the two of you and the time you are spending together as a couple.
Whatever cheap date idea you decide to go with, always make sure you keep these three things in mind first and foremost. Keep it low-cost. Make it fun for you and your partner by taking his or her opinions and likes in mind; try to find activities that suit you both. Be yourself on this date. Keep in mind that you are trying to get closer in your relationship, and don’t worry about not spending a lot of money. If you have got the right man or woman, they won’t be concerned with how much money you spend as they will be with what type of things you put together because you care.
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Now some of you will cringe at the words cheap date idea. But think of the phrase used in a good context. Just because your date idea is inexpensive, doesn’t mean that you can’t have a fun cheap date idea. Do not sell short the perfection that can happen by just being with your partner one on one. Use creativity to be able to make up for spending lots of money, and your date will notice that you went all out personally instead of just financially. You will definitely be rewarded for the obvious effort that you have put in. Anyone can buy what it takes for a great date. It takes a special person to be able to come up with a cheap, creative, fun date idea.
When thinking of a date to take your loved one on, there are 3 essential things to remember. First, obviously, keep cost in mind. The goal is to have a fun cheap date, and while "fun" is very important, "cheap" is an important part of this date theme as well. Second, take into account what your significant other likes to do. This is important if you are going to have an enjoyable time. Try to find activities that interest both of you in your cheap date idea. A third thing to remember is to be yourself. The point of this date is NOT to show how much money you can toss around. As was said before, anyone can do that. This date is all about the togetherness and closeness that you make as your goal for the night. Forget the fact that you aren’t spending a lot of money to keep up with the "Jones’" date. Just remember that this date is all about the two of you and the time you are spending together as a couple.
Whatever cheap date idea you decide to go with, always make sure you keep these three things in mind first and foremost. Keep it low-cost. Make it fun for you and your partner by taking his or her opinions and likes in mind; try to find activities that suit you both. Be yourself on this date. Keep in mind that you are trying to get closer in your relationship, and don’t worry about not spending a lot of money. If you have got the right man or woman, they won’t be concerned with how much money you spend as they will be with what type of things you put together because you care.
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Romantic Date Ideas: Keeping It Simple
Romantic date ideas are being searched for all over the internet. The reason for the mass amount of searching for these keywords is because people in relationships are realizing how important it is to go out every once in a while, without the kids, without your friends, just you and your loved one. Doing this helps to keep the partners in a relationship close and focused on each other. The more one-on-one time you can spend with your loved one, the more time you will have to bond and to get more intimate with one another. What makes a romantic date you may ask. When you are thinking of this question, remember 3 simple ways to classify a romantic date. It is generally a romantic date idea if you are with your partner one-on-one, you get the chance to talk and learn about each other, and if you become closer because of it.
The first way to decide if a date is a romantic date idea is to ask the question are you alone with your date. There are situations where a date can be romantic with a group of people, but most of the time, you want a romantic date to be just the two of you. Having a family night where it is you, your partner, and your kids, or a friends’ night where you leave the kids with the sitter and go out with your friends are two great ways to bond with people you care a lot about. However, there are some times that you just have to explain to everyone that you need time out from everyone but that special person. This helps to bring a closeness that just doesn’t happen around other people.
Another way to determine the "romanticness" of a date is to know whether you will get the chance to talk and learn more about each other. Going on a roller coaster ride sounds like a very fun date, but it would not be the first date that I would classify as a romantic date idea. Screaming down a coaster track may be a way to have a great time, but romance might be lacking from the equation. If you were to go out to a dinner or a nice quiet picnic after the amusement park, that is a way to get romance into the situation. Laying on a blanket beneath the stars or eating over soft candlelight are two dates that first pop to mind when thinking of romance.
One other way to decide whether you have a romantic date idea is to determine whether you will be closer emotionally to your partner. A romantic date doesn’t have to be a fancy dinner and expensive wine. Romance can happen when you are eating hot dogs from a hot dog vendor in a park. It can happen shopping for groceries at a local supermarket. In other words, it is not the setting that determines whether a date is romantic or not. The outcome is much more important in concluding whether or not a date is romantic.
A romantic date idea is generally easy to recognize. First, you must be able to get alone with the one you love. This means, no kids, no friends, and no other family. Secondly, find out whether or not you will have a chance to talk and get emotionally closer to each other. The third thing that can help determine whether or not a date is romantic is the outcome of the date. When emotional closeness is the outcome of a date, no matter what other factors are involved the date has been successfully romantic.
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The first way to decide if a date is a romantic date idea is to ask the question are you alone with your date. There are situations where a date can be romantic with a group of people, but most of the time, you want a romantic date to be just the two of you. Having a family night where it is you, your partner, and your kids, or a friends’ night where you leave the kids with the sitter and go out with your friends are two great ways to bond with people you care a lot about. However, there are some times that you just have to explain to everyone that you need time out from everyone but that special person. This helps to bring a closeness that just doesn’t happen around other people.
Another way to determine the "romanticness" of a date is to know whether you will get the chance to talk and learn more about each other. Going on a roller coaster ride sounds like a very fun date, but it would not be the first date that I would classify as a romantic date idea. Screaming down a coaster track may be a way to have a great time, but romance might be lacking from the equation. If you were to go out to a dinner or a nice quiet picnic after the amusement park, that is a way to get romance into the situation. Laying on a blanket beneath the stars or eating over soft candlelight are two dates that first pop to mind when thinking of romance.
One other way to decide whether you have a romantic date idea is to determine whether you will be closer emotionally to your partner. A romantic date doesn’t have to be a fancy dinner and expensive wine. Romance can happen when you are eating hot dogs from a hot dog vendor in a park. It can happen shopping for groceries at a local supermarket. In other words, it is not the setting that determines whether a date is romantic or not. The outcome is much more important in concluding whether or not a date is romantic.
A romantic date idea is generally easy to recognize. First, you must be able to get alone with the one you love. This means, no kids, no friends, and no other family. Secondly, find out whether or not you will have a chance to talk and get emotionally closer to each other. The third thing that can help determine whether or not a date is romantic is the outcome of the date. When emotional closeness is the outcome of a date, no matter what other factors are involved the date has been successfully romantic.
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How to date older women
Gone are those days when people sneered at Anne Bancroft as Mrs. Robinson trying to seduce a young Dustin Hoffman in ‘The Graduate’. These days, Demi Moore doesn’t shy away from strutting with her toyboy Ashton Kutcher. Keep in mind age is just a number. Compatibility and communication, not calendar years, keep a relationship going. Her experience, if combined with your energy and intelligence, can surely lead to a mind-blowing chemistry.
Here are some tips for making your dating hour with older women a roaring success:
Elder women yearn for respect far more than the younger lot. So, pay her the respect she deserves. Don’t ever show that you are doing any mercy to her by taking her out for a date.
Never try to remind her of her actual age and don’t ever take advantage of her age. Showing embarrassment in front of her due to your age gap can make her feel awkward.
Two persons from two separate generations can surely share the same likings. Make her favorite movies and music your topic of discussion.
Use every sort of superlatives while complementing on her looks, make-up, hairstyle and sense of dressing. Try to mention the best of her features. Make her feel like a queen.
Stop from reminding her of her previous unsuccessful relationships and failed marriages. It can spoil her date. You can ask her about her about her past experiences, but you should also know when and where to draw the line. Don’t force her to speak about her ex-husband or former boyfriend. Always try to concentrate on such topics in which she is comfortable to converse.
There’s no need to feel that your lack of experience may become an obstacle in your relationship. Instead, try to sharpen those qualities of yours that have lured the older lady to go on a date with you. If she is not concerned about the age difference, then it mustn’t bother you either.
She may have come for a date to rejuvenate her love life. Make her day by presenting her a bouquet of roses. Make your sense of humor your strongest weapon. Making her laugh too often indicates you two are going ahead for a steady and healthy liaison.
If you try too hard to look and act like a matured guy, then it may turn her off, because it’s your youth and exuberance that have drawn her closer to you. Be yourself and if showing a little bit of immaturity makes her heart aflutter, then let it be. Give her some time to understand your level of maturity.
Behave like a gentleman when she introduces you in her circle of friends. They may not accept your relationship easily, so keep your cool. You are free to ‘back out’ at the last moment if your dating situation turns out to be too serious for you.
Never develop such notion that she has lost the appetite for sex. She needs as much as sexual pleasure as you do. Remember that with age, certain changes take place in a woman’s body that leads to slower rate of sexual arousal. So, you are supposed to be a bit more patient while initiating sexual foreplay and act accordingly. But, instead rushing for sex, spend precious time discussing about each other’s hobbies and passions. Keep talking about your innermost fantasies. That can help in igniting her lost passion.
Your ego may get a huge blow if you see her more successful in the professional sphere. How will you feel when your financially more affluent partner pays the bill after dinner? So, try to reach a compromise through discussion with your partner and make her understand your situation.
Dating an older woman doesn’t mean that you will leave all your work and join the party she is enjoying along with her friends. There should be enough space between your and her social lives. If you devote considerable amount of time in your own activities besides meeting her regularly, then it will surely help in earning her admiration. Your success will make her smile and she will be proud of you.
Older women, being naturally insecured, are often jealous of their younger counterparts. So, your words of reassurance are essential to calm her down. Always be caring and nurturing towards them. If you serve her food in your on hands, she will be more than happy. Be her strong support system at the time of despair.
Don’t assume that being younger, you will take an upper hand in the relationship. Don’t throw tantrums and act like a spoilt brat when things are not going your way. Never try to play with her emotions. She may not be forgiving always. If she feels, she may teach you a lesson or two. She has seen a lot more of life. So, never take her for granted.
And… after a few dates…
Ask yourself whether you are ready to become the stay-at-h
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Here are some tips for making your dating hour with older women a roaring success:
Elder women yearn for respect far more than the younger lot. So, pay her the respect she deserves. Don’t ever show that you are doing any mercy to her by taking her out for a date.
Never try to remind her of her actual age and don’t ever take advantage of her age. Showing embarrassment in front of her due to your age gap can make her feel awkward.
Two persons from two separate generations can surely share the same likings. Make her favorite movies and music your topic of discussion.
Use every sort of superlatives while complementing on her looks, make-up, hairstyle and sense of dressing. Try to mention the best of her features. Make her feel like a queen.
Stop from reminding her of her previous unsuccessful relationships and failed marriages. It can spoil her date. You can ask her about her about her past experiences, but you should also know when and where to draw the line. Don’t force her to speak about her ex-husband or former boyfriend. Always try to concentrate on such topics in which she is comfortable to converse.
There’s no need to feel that your lack of experience may become an obstacle in your relationship. Instead, try to sharpen those qualities of yours that have lured the older lady to go on a date with you. If she is not concerned about the age difference, then it mustn’t bother you either.
She may have come for a date to rejuvenate her love life. Make her day by presenting her a bouquet of roses. Make your sense of humor your strongest weapon. Making her laugh too often indicates you two are going ahead for a steady and healthy liaison.
If you try too hard to look and act like a matured guy, then it may turn her off, because it’s your youth and exuberance that have drawn her closer to you. Be yourself and if showing a little bit of immaturity makes her heart aflutter, then let it be. Give her some time to understand your level of maturity.
Behave like a gentleman when she introduces you in her circle of friends. They may not accept your relationship easily, so keep your cool. You are free to ‘back out’ at the last moment if your dating situation turns out to be too serious for you.
Never develop such notion that she has lost the appetite for sex. She needs as much as sexual pleasure as you do. Remember that with age, certain changes take place in a woman’s body that leads to slower rate of sexual arousal. So, you are supposed to be a bit more patient while initiating sexual foreplay and act accordingly. But, instead rushing for sex, spend precious time discussing about each other’s hobbies and passions. Keep talking about your innermost fantasies. That can help in igniting her lost passion.
Your ego may get a huge blow if you see her more successful in the professional sphere. How will you feel when your financially more affluent partner pays the bill after dinner? So, try to reach a compromise through discussion with your partner and make her understand your situation.
Dating an older woman doesn’t mean that you will leave all your work and join the party she is enjoying along with her friends. There should be enough space between your and her social lives. If you devote considerable amount of time in your own activities besides meeting her regularly, then it will surely help in earning her admiration. Your success will make her smile and she will be proud of you.
Older women, being naturally insecured, are often jealous of their younger counterparts. So, your words of reassurance are essential to calm her down. Always be caring and nurturing towards them. If you serve her food in your on hands, she will be more than happy. Be her strong support system at the time of despair.
Don’t assume that being younger, you will take an upper hand in the relationship. Don’t throw tantrums and act like a spoilt brat when things are not going your way. Never try to play with her emotions. She may not be forgiving always. If she feels, she may teach you a lesson or two. She has seen a lot more of life. So, never take her for granted.
And… after a few dates…
Ask yourself whether you are ready to become the stay-at-h
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What Is Unconditional Love?
Why people kiss or want to be kissed by their partners???
It is an expression of affection in romantic relationships that come from within the two conjugal lovers. Love can be expressed in thousands of ways but nobody can say which one is the most satisfactory for them.
You must have seen pairs of lovers sitting in a cozy pasture at your nearby park and making love for hours together leaving all the prosaic things behind. Sometimes, they are seen to play with each other’s private parts or are seen in a kissing posture. This is nothing new to this world of romantic love; the tradition has been going on since the origin of human race. But, can any couple truly claim that they are fully satisfied with their activities in parks under the greenwood tree? No!! They would prefer to have more sexual play to meet their desire. This urge for making love cannot be satisfied if it is not free from condition.
Even after a passionate intercourse, a couple may not be satisfied fully to open their heart for love; on the other hand, a single kiss can bring saturated love in your life. It is the psychology of lovers that determine the state of satisfaction…true love is boundless, free from all ethics of life; it can neither be restricted through any chain of conditions nor can be replaced by any earthly substance.
A married life is intended to bring happiness through love, emotions and feelings for each other. If there lays no emotion, sense of satisfaction and earnest eagerness to make love - nothing can bring peace, harmony and certainty in married life. It is quite obvious that after getting married, every couple would like to explore more fun through sex; but the common experience is altogether different. It is often found that instead of enjoyment, they are leading a hectic life full of conditions that revolves around ‘give and take policy’. Love is not love when conditions restrict normalcy of life. Take the incident for granted – a young boy to satisfy his urge for making love goes to a prostitute and does what is expected… keeping aside true love from her and as soon as the game is over he would have to stretch his hand for paying a lump some amount.
Relationship between the boy and the prostitute is too fragile to stay more than one or two hours. In this case, sex can be bought in exchange of money but cannot love. Marriage, though an institution, seems like a relationship between a truant boy and a prostitute, if it is not bounded by unconditional love. Faith, complacency and satisfaction are key words that can bring peace and harmony in any married couple, not mere sex. On the other hand sex is as important as the heart beats of life. Without sex life seems to be barren tract of land. This is why unconditional love is the primal force behind any strong relationships, especially for marriage.
The society is getting complicated every day and the relationships between human beings are no exception. Extra-marital affair is very common nowadays; but that relationship should also be cemented with unconditional love, otherwise the fun that you are looking for would not come to you. There is always a set of theory that rover around human mind in order to crave for any object that is beyond their reach. Extra marital affair is increasing like anything else. Unlike any other person, you would probably think of enjoying the body of other’s wife without letting know her husband.
This relationship would stay as long you crave and it stands on a definite cause. Suppose, both of you want to keep this relationship only because of having sex or to play with the private organs of each other; in such cases, the love that you possess for that lady or vice versa is controlled by conditions i.e. sex and nothing else. If there were true love in between two souls of you, both of you would feel for each other. Otherwise, it would again become just like the relationship of a young boy and prostitute. ‘Give and take policy’ can be applicable to deal with customers, but would never fruitful for a matured love affair. Love is devoid of any expectation; it does not demand anything from life. Only proper mentality and mindset is required.
The term ‘unconditional love’ should also be there in between two gays or lesbians. Preferences may alter depending on people; but unconditional love is static in every true relationship. It is the basis of any true association; it asks for trust, faith and friendship of two different souls. Unconditional love is ideal love, which brings peace, harmony, satisfaction and all the positive emotional feelings in life. It is difficult to follow the true paths of unconditional love in the mire of mundane life, but the fruits of unconditional love bring forth true sense to live on the breast of this mother earth.
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It is an expression of affection in romantic relationships that come from within the two conjugal lovers. Love can be expressed in thousands of ways but nobody can say which one is the most satisfactory for them.
You must have seen pairs of lovers sitting in a cozy pasture at your nearby park and making love for hours together leaving all the prosaic things behind. Sometimes, they are seen to play with each other’s private parts or are seen in a kissing posture. This is nothing new to this world of romantic love; the tradition has been going on since the origin of human race. But, can any couple truly claim that they are fully satisfied with their activities in parks under the greenwood tree? No!! They would prefer to have more sexual play to meet their desire. This urge for making love cannot be satisfied if it is not free from condition.
Even after a passionate intercourse, a couple may not be satisfied fully to open their heart for love; on the other hand, a single kiss can bring saturated love in your life. It is the psychology of lovers that determine the state of satisfaction…true love is boundless, free from all ethics of life; it can neither be restricted through any chain of conditions nor can be replaced by any earthly substance.
A married life is intended to bring happiness through love, emotions and feelings for each other. If there lays no emotion, sense of satisfaction and earnest eagerness to make love - nothing can bring peace, harmony and certainty in married life. It is quite obvious that after getting married, every couple would like to explore more fun through sex; but the common experience is altogether different. It is often found that instead of enjoyment, they are leading a hectic life full of conditions that revolves around ‘give and take policy’. Love is not love when conditions restrict normalcy of life. Take the incident for granted – a young boy to satisfy his urge for making love goes to a prostitute and does what is expected… keeping aside true love from her and as soon as the game is over he would have to stretch his hand for paying a lump some amount.
Relationship between the boy and the prostitute is too fragile to stay more than one or two hours. In this case, sex can be bought in exchange of money but cannot love. Marriage, though an institution, seems like a relationship between a truant boy and a prostitute, if it is not bounded by unconditional love. Faith, complacency and satisfaction are key words that can bring peace and harmony in any married couple, not mere sex. On the other hand sex is as important as the heart beats of life. Without sex life seems to be barren tract of land. This is why unconditional love is the primal force behind any strong relationships, especially for marriage.
The society is getting complicated every day and the relationships between human beings are no exception. Extra-marital affair is very common nowadays; but that relationship should also be cemented with unconditional love, otherwise the fun that you are looking for would not come to you. There is always a set of theory that rover around human mind in order to crave for any object that is beyond their reach. Extra marital affair is increasing like anything else. Unlike any other person, you would probably think of enjoying the body of other’s wife without letting know her husband.
This relationship would stay as long you crave and it stands on a definite cause. Suppose, both of you want to keep this relationship only because of having sex or to play with the private organs of each other; in such cases, the love that you possess for that lady or vice versa is controlled by conditions i.e. sex and nothing else. If there were true love in between two souls of you, both of you would feel for each other. Otherwise, it would again become just like the relationship of a young boy and prostitute. ‘Give and take policy’ can be applicable to deal with customers, but would never fruitful for a matured love affair. Love is devoid of any expectation; it does not demand anything from life. Only proper mentality and mindset is required.
The term ‘unconditional love’ should also be there in between two gays or lesbians. Preferences may alter depending on people; but unconditional love is static in every true relationship. It is the basis of any true association; it asks for trust, faith and friendship of two different souls. Unconditional love is ideal love, which brings peace, harmony, satisfaction and all the positive emotional feelings in life. It is difficult to follow the true paths of unconditional love in the mire of mundane life, but the fruits of unconditional love bring forth true sense to live on the breast of this mother earth.
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What Are The Best Flirting Tips?
You spot the gorgeous gal at the party and her irresistible charisma makes you mad for her. You want to get closer to her…you are dying to spend to few precious moments of togetherness. But will you succeed to impress her? What can you do now?
Just go through the page and hone your flirting skills…
Always wear a smile when you are in the mood for flirting. It is indeed the most important accessory of a flirt. Smiling persons are really much more approachable than their straight-faced counterparts. A beautiful smile has the power of lighting up the whole evening and can add such a magnetic charm to your personality that can draw a number of people towards you.
Shower your partner with heaps of compliments. But never go over the top. And keep an element of surprise in all your compliments. They must sound genuine and candid. Whenever you receive a compliment, don’t forget to say ‘thank you’ in return. All these will surely keep your flirting game going.
Making eye contact is a must! Give your partners seductive looks for a few seconds and then take your eyes away from him/her. Please don’t ogle constantly. It can be a major turn off.
A good listener always makes a desirable person. If you are willing to lend your ears to your partner for several minutes, he/she will be more than happy to get an attentive and patient listener like you and your flirting hour can turn out to be quite a hit.
Be confident enough to make the first move. Shyness can be a real obstacle in the path of a good flirt. Just get closer to the person who has fascinated you and greet him/her with a cordial ‘hi’ or ‘hello’.
Get in charge of the whole situation, instead of playing the passive role of a person who is always waiting in the wings for his/her turn to come.
Be well groomed. Your appearance should be a pleasing, yet eye-catching one. In this process, you are free to take help of various props. The perfume you wear plays an effective role in turning that special someone on. Clothes and other accessories too need to chosen with care. You may also take your cute little puppy or your bro’s chubby son with you. These props are great for catching the attention of a woman.
Always try to bring forth your vulnerable self. Keep your jovial and cheery mood alive.
Learn to enhance your gift of the gab. Carry on talking on diverse subjects and keep your partner engrossed. Always give him/her chance to take part in the conversation.
Make your confidence your greatest asset. Risks are intrinsic to flirting. So, don’t get afraid to take risks. Wear your attitude on your sleeve. Show that you are keen to give her company and think positive. You have to shun all your negativities; they show on your face.
Fill your eyes with deep interest and warmth while looking at your beloved. Keep your pupils moving. If you see that the object of your flirting has started blushing, then it is rest assured that you have won the game.
Always speak in a low, but appealing tone. Try to get in tune with his/her level of volume.
Modulate your voice; add a sensuous touch to it.
Give gentle touches in various areas of the person’s body. But, never grope any body part. Fleeting touches in hands, shoulders and arms have their magical aftereffects.
Take her away from the crowd, move to the room’s corner and put your entire focus on her.
Don’t try to be over-smart and never try to be someone you are not. There are chances that you can turn out to be a laughing stock.
Act, behave and talk in such a way that will go with your image. Be yourself and put forward your true self.
Sexual undercurrents in conversation are OK. But, debar from sexual overtones. That may spoil the whole thing.
Never take flirting too far and cross the limit of decency. Flirting up to a certain extent is fine, but too much of anything is bad.
Don’t become an exhibitionist. Too much showing off is never desirable.
Try to develop your self-esteem. A person lacking in the department of self-respect can never be a charmer.
The more you flirt, the more you sharpen your flirting ability. ‘Practice makes perfect’ – these words are true in every respect. Try your hands at parties, discs, bars and other social-dos.
The best way to know whether the person you are flirting with is interested is to take a close look at his/her eyes. Once you succeed in reading the language of other people’s eyes, you can become adept in flirting.
Give him/her clear signals that you are attracted. Try to read the person’s signals too.
Ask his/her special likings, hobbies etc. and made them your topic of discussion. Don’t go on and on speaking only about yourself and your penchants.
Offer her a drink and a few bites from your snacks.
Let, your body language speak volumes about yourself.
Never use filthy languages. Be humorous and crack intelligent jokes.
Try to find which is your sexiest body part and what makes you sexy in the truest sense. Ooze your sex appeal.
Don’t use clichéd ‘pick up’ lines. Try something new and unique.
Becoming too self-conscious about your body is not desirable.
Sometimes silence speaks volumes. Try to give your partner non-verbal signals.
Well…are you ready to take the plunge now? If YES, then, ALL THE BEST for your next Saturday night-out…
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Just go through the page and hone your flirting skills…
Always wear a smile when you are in the mood for flirting. It is indeed the most important accessory of a flirt. Smiling persons are really much more approachable than their straight-faced counterparts. A beautiful smile has the power of lighting up the whole evening and can add such a magnetic charm to your personality that can draw a number of people towards you.
Shower your partner with heaps of compliments. But never go over the top. And keep an element of surprise in all your compliments. They must sound genuine and candid. Whenever you receive a compliment, don’t forget to say ‘thank you’ in return. All these will surely keep your flirting game going.
Making eye contact is a must! Give your partners seductive looks for a few seconds and then take your eyes away from him/her. Please don’t ogle constantly. It can be a major turn off.
A good listener always makes a desirable person. If you are willing to lend your ears to your partner for several minutes, he/she will be more than happy to get an attentive and patient listener like you and your flirting hour can turn out to be quite a hit.
Be confident enough to make the first move. Shyness can be a real obstacle in the path of a good flirt. Just get closer to the person who has fascinated you and greet him/her with a cordial ‘hi’ or ‘hello’.
Get in charge of the whole situation, instead of playing the passive role of a person who is always waiting in the wings for his/her turn to come.
Be well groomed. Your appearance should be a pleasing, yet eye-catching one. In this process, you are free to take help of various props. The perfume you wear plays an effective role in turning that special someone on. Clothes and other accessories too need to chosen with care. You may also take your cute little puppy or your bro’s chubby son with you. These props are great for catching the attention of a woman.
Always try to bring forth your vulnerable self. Keep your jovial and cheery mood alive.
Learn to enhance your gift of the gab. Carry on talking on diverse subjects and keep your partner engrossed. Always give him/her chance to take part in the conversation.
Make your confidence your greatest asset. Risks are intrinsic to flirting. So, don’t get afraid to take risks. Wear your attitude on your sleeve. Show that you are keen to give her company and think positive. You have to shun all your negativities; they show on your face.
Fill your eyes with deep interest and warmth while looking at your beloved. Keep your pupils moving. If you see that the object of your flirting has started blushing, then it is rest assured that you have won the game.
Always speak in a low, but appealing tone. Try to get in tune with his/her level of volume.
Modulate your voice; add a sensuous touch to it.
Give gentle touches in various areas of the person’s body. But, never grope any body part. Fleeting touches in hands, shoulders and arms have their magical aftereffects.
Take her away from the crowd, move to the room’s corner and put your entire focus on her.
Don’t try to be over-smart and never try to be someone you are not. There are chances that you can turn out to be a laughing stock.
Act, behave and talk in such a way that will go with your image. Be yourself and put forward your true self.
Sexual undercurrents in conversation are OK. But, debar from sexual overtones. That may spoil the whole thing.
Never take flirting too far and cross the limit of decency. Flirting up to a certain extent is fine, but too much of anything is bad.
Don’t become an exhibitionist. Too much showing off is never desirable.
Try to develop your self-esteem. A person lacking in the department of self-respect can never be a charmer.
The more you flirt, the more you sharpen your flirting ability. ‘Practice makes perfect’ – these words are true in every respect. Try your hands at parties, discs, bars and other social-dos.
The best way to know whether the person you are flirting with is interested is to take a close look at his/her eyes. Once you succeed in reading the language of other people’s eyes, you can become adept in flirting.
Give him/her clear signals that you are attracted. Try to read the person’s signals too.
Ask his/her special likings, hobbies etc. and made them your topic of discussion. Don’t go on and on speaking only about yourself and your penchants.
Offer her a drink and a few bites from your snacks.
Let, your body language speak volumes about yourself.
Never use filthy languages. Be humorous and crack intelligent jokes.
Try to find which is your sexiest body part and what makes you sexy in the truest sense. Ooze your sex appeal.
Don’t use clichéd ‘pick up’ lines. Try something new and unique.
Becoming too self-conscious about your body is not desirable.
Sometimes silence speaks volumes. Try to give your partner non-verbal signals.
Well…are you ready to take the plunge now? If YES, then, ALL THE BEST for your next Saturday night-out…
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Safety Online Dating Tips For Seniors
Looking at the fastest growing online dating population of the seniors here are some safety tips to be followed
when joining an online dating community. It would assist in their online dating choices.
1) It is recommended that keep your specific information like the place of your stay to yourself when you are
going for dating because there may be offensive characters who will try to make a fool out of you making you
reveal your residing town.
2) Keep your private email PRIVATE to ensure your safety when dating online.
3) Be honest with your age and your picture because you too want people to be honest with you.
4) Those that tend to take time to write the profile on the dating site and tend to polish over the narrative
like hobbies, interests and activities, etc distinguish them from the others. In order to make your profile
errorless, it is suggested to write in the WordPad first and then copy into the dating profile.
5) You must be clear with the kind of relationship you are seeking for in the dating site. Treat yourself
honestly and give yourself the option to change your mind.
6) Avoiding those people who peeps into your personal life completely will not be wise of you instead offer
little of stuff and if kick off if found inconsistence.
7) Asking personal information especially if it is financial is completely disallowed. Avoid answering any such
questions if asked. If anyone daring asks such information then it should be pruned and reported to the website
monitors to take necessary actions if needed.
8) Remember, safety should be your first priority. You can be easily located if you give home phone number as a
contact number so keep your home number private for as long as you need to verify all the information on your new
friend instead give your cell number as your contact number.
9) ALWAYS meet in public place where there is enough parking close to the entrance. Make sure to inform about
your place to date also let the other person know that someone knows where you are and whom you are meeting.
10) TAKE YOUR TIME! Do not rush into a relationship instead listen to your gut feelings on your potential new
friends. Online dating is fun and a safe way to meet people from the safety and comfort of your home.
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/Safety-Online-Dating-Tips-For-Seniors/124266
when joining an online dating community. It would assist in their online dating choices.
1) It is recommended that keep your specific information like the place of your stay to yourself when you are
going for dating because there may be offensive characters who will try to make a fool out of you making you
reveal your residing town.
2) Keep your private email PRIVATE to ensure your safety when dating online.
3) Be honest with your age and your picture because you too want people to be honest with you.
4) Those that tend to take time to write the profile on the dating site and tend to polish over the narrative
like hobbies, interests and activities, etc distinguish them from the others. In order to make your profile
errorless, it is suggested to write in the WordPad first and then copy into the dating profile.
5) You must be clear with the kind of relationship you are seeking for in the dating site. Treat yourself
honestly and give yourself the option to change your mind.
6) Avoiding those people who peeps into your personal life completely will not be wise of you instead offer
little of stuff and if kick off if found inconsistence.
7) Asking personal information especially if it is financial is completely disallowed. Avoid answering any such
questions if asked. If anyone daring asks such information then it should be pruned and reported to the website
monitors to take necessary actions if needed.
8) Remember, safety should be your first priority. You can be easily located if you give home phone number as a
contact number so keep your home number private for as long as you need to verify all the information on your new
friend instead give your cell number as your contact number.
9) ALWAYS meet in public place where there is enough parking close to the entrance. Make sure to inform about
your place to date also let the other person know that someone knows where you are and whom you are meeting.
10) TAKE YOUR TIME! Do not rush into a relationship instead listen to your gut feelings on your potential new
friends. Online dating is fun and a safe way to meet people from the safety and comfort of your home.
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/Safety-Online-Dating-Tips-For-Seniors/124266
Dating Services Online and Rejection
We all know by now that society has trained and is still training us all to behave within certain expected norms. Of course there are rebels who go out of their way to go against these norms. Some people even take this anti social behaviour to extremes. But by and large people find it difficult to swim against the current. These norms sometimes provide easy answers and ways out when there might otherwise not be an easy solution. A good example of this is the funeral. There is in most cultures an agreed procedure to follow when someone dies and everyone knows how to deal with this most difficult time in a person’s life. This event would be even more difficult if the culture’s norms were not there to guide them.
Sometimes these norms can cause problems for an individual who can as a result become quite anxious and stressed when society provides a rule but no instructions. This generally arises when there is conflict between what society expects of the individual and what the individual expects in return. These societal norms include dating.
When a man of dating age decides to find a mate, and this can vary depending on his biological development, his own ambitions and the culture he lives in, there are steps he can take to find a suitable partner. He can go to a dance, disco, or a bar etc. In many social circles the method of finding a partner can be important to the acceptance of the partner by his peers. A pick up in a bar may be looked down on by some elements of society. The girl may be seen as easy. (whatever that is) In spite of the fact that in many cases bars may be the only social contact these people are likely to have.
He may meet girls through certain sporting activities usually as a spectator or group recreational activities like hill walking, bird watching or evening classes in some hobby. However, the common factor in all of the above is that this lonely male is expected to do the looking and asking. Why? Well that is a good question which deserves a longer answer than I am going to give it here. The short answer is that society has decided that that is how it should be.
Though it is now changing in most parts of the world, the worldwide norm is that the man must ask the girl out on the date. If the girl asks him out she is seen as cheap, easy and may be considered to be throwing herself at him. This pressure on the male, and yes it is pressure, can be very stressful for a number of reasons.
The male is not always the confident and ever ready mating machine that the media would have us believe. The human male is often a sensitive and shy animal in spite of some indications to the contrary. He dreads asking out a prospective date because he fears rejection. Rejection is, no matter what they say, a huge blow to a male’s ego. For this reason, among others, he decides that the girl he asks out must be that one and only love of his life. He does not want to face the possibility of rejection again so he looks for the perfect girl and seldom dates. This is of course a vicious circle, because he then raises both his standards and expectations of getting the perfect girl which increases the pressure which means that he has to get it right the first time and that increases the stress and so on.
Apart from anything else there is very limited information available to men in society about how to go about asking a girl out on a date. Much of what is written is aimed at men who want nothing more than one night stands. Men seldom actually talk truthfully amongst themselves about how they came to be dating a girl, particularly if they have deep feelings for her, and especially not if the girl asked him out. They usually invent some and impressive macho story that will increase their standing in their group.
Mothers and fathers do not usually discuss mating rituals with their children. Although daughters do often ask their mothers how their parents met the answer is not always honest and when it is it is not always accurate. So in today’s changing society, how does a man ask out his prospective date without taking too much of a chance? How for that matter can a woman ask out a prospective date without being seen in a negative light by society and maybe even the object of her affections?
Society has in this case provided the answer. It is now acceptable to find a partner on the internet. This is done using dating sites. Online dating as it has come to be known is an inspired notion. The man or woman can sign up anonymously for membership at a dating site and discreetly advertise their availability. When another member sees their profile on the dating site, they can, still anonymously, contact them. All members can browse and search the dating site for prospective partners without anyone knowing that they are looking. When they find a suitable member profile they can initiate contact.
If a member does not like the profile of the person who is interested in them they can reject the contact proposal at any time. This rejection is a lot easier to take because it is anonymous. A rejection given face to face is much worse because the person who rejected you has met you and is rejecting you not just your profile.
If they are interested in making contact with the member who has contacted them they can answer the communication and take it further. This way a person can see if the prospective date is really suitable for dating. If a member is too persistent and you need to, you can block communication from that member. Some people can’t take a hint. But this is rarely necessary.
As things advance they may decide to meet. However, there is now a new development in the online dating scene. That is the incorporation of video conferencing into the dating site. This allows the member to upload a short video of themselves into their member’s profile. This gives the other members a better idea of what they are like and avoids disappointment.
Looks are of course less important than personality. It often happens that people get to know each other as friends without noticing each other’s looks. Then suddenly one day something clicks in both of them and they see each other in a totally different way. They become totally attracted to each other and see a beauty there that they may not have noticed before.
My advice is don’t go looking at your friends trying to see what I am talking about. If it happens, it happens.
If things are taking too long for your liking, try a dating site. Online dating is the way to do it today. No major rejections and a huge selection of available dates on a searchable database. What could be better?
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/Dating-Services-Online-and-Rejection/124559
Sometimes these norms can cause problems for an individual who can as a result become quite anxious and stressed when society provides a rule but no instructions. This generally arises when there is conflict between what society expects of the individual and what the individual expects in return. These societal norms include dating.
When a man of dating age decides to find a mate, and this can vary depending on his biological development, his own ambitions and the culture he lives in, there are steps he can take to find a suitable partner. He can go to a dance, disco, or a bar etc. In many social circles the method of finding a partner can be important to the acceptance of the partner by his peers. A pick up in a bar may be looked down on by some elements of society. The girl may be seen as easy. (whatever that is) In spite of the fact that in many cases bars may be the only social contact these people are likely to have.
He may meet girls through certain sporting activities usually as a spectator or group recreational activities like hill walking, bird watching or evening classes in some hobby. However, the common factor in all of the above is that this lonely male is expected to do the looking and asking. Why? Well that is a good question which deserves a longer answer than I am going to give it here. The short answer is that society has decided that that is how it should be.
Though it is now changing in most parts of the world, the worldwide norm is that the man must ask the girl out on the date. If the girl asks him out she is seen as cheap, easy and may be considered to be throwing herself at him. This pressure on the male, and yes it is pressure, can be very stressful for a number of reasons.
The male is not always the confident and ever ready mating machine that the media would have us believe. The human male is often a sensitive and shy animal in spite of some indications to the contrary. He dreads asking out a prospective date because he fears rejection. Rejection is, no matter what they say, a huge blow to a male’s ego. For this reason, among others, he decides that the girl he asks out must be that one and only love of his life. He does not want to face the possibility of rejection again so he looks for the perfect girl and seldom dates. This is of course a vicious circle, because he then raises both his standards and expectations of getting the perfect girl which increases the pressure which means that he has to get it right the first time and that increases the stress and so on.
Apart from anything else there is very limited information available to men in society about how to go about asking a girl out on a date. Much of what is written is aimed at men who want nothing more than one night stands. Men seldom actually talk truthfully amongst themselves about how they came to be dating a girl, particularly if they have deep feelings for her, and especially not if the girl asked him out. They usually invent some and impressive macho story that will increase their standing in their group.
Mothers and fathers do not usually discuss mating rituals with their children. Although daughters do often ask their mothers how their parents met the answer is not always honest and when it is it is not always accurate. So in today’s changing society, how does a man ask out his prospective date without taking too much of a chance? How for that matter can a woman ask out a prospective date without being seen in a negative light by society and maybe even the object of her affections?
Society has in this case provided the answer. It is now acceptable to find a partner on the internet. This is done using dating sites. Online dating as it has come to be known is an inspired notion. The man or woman can sign up anonymously for membership at a dating site and discreetly advertise their availability. When another member sees their profile on the dating site, they can, still anonymously, contact them. All members can browse and search the dating site for prospective partners without anyone knowing that they are looking. When they find a suitable member profile they can initiate contact.
If a member does not like the profile of the person who is interested in them they can reject the contact proposal at any time. This rejection is a lot easier to take because it is anonymous. A rejection given face to face is much worse because the person who rejected you has met you and is rejecting you not just your profile.
If they are interested in making contact with the member who has contacted them they can answer the communication and take it further. This way a person can see if the prospective date is really suitable for dating. If a member is too persistent and you need to, you can block communication from that member. Some people can’t take a hint. But this is rarely necessary.
As things advance they may decide to meet. However, there is now a new development in the online dating scene. That is the incorporation of video conferencing into the dating site. This allows the member to upload a short video of themselves into their member’s profile. This gives the other members a better idea of what they are like and avoids disappointment.
Looks are of course less important than personality. It often happens that people get to know each other as friends without noticing each other’s looks. Then suddenly one day something clicks in both of them and they see each other in a totally different way. They become totally attracted to each other and see a beauty there that they may not have noticed before.
My advice is don’t go looking at your friends trying to see what I am talking about. If it happens, it happens.
If things are taking too long for your liking, try a dating site. Online dating is the way to do it today. No major rejections and a huge selection of available dates on a searchable database. What could be better?
http://www.add-articles.com/Article/Dating-Services-Online-and-Rejection/124559
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