Do you remember your first date? I bet you do. It doesnt matter if you are having your first they girlfriend, or you have had ten girls. You always get nervous. Of course, if you have been friends with that girl and suddenly youve decided to invite her to go out, that might be easier, because you already know each other, at least a little bit. That can help you to feel less nervous.
But what if you dont know her very well? Thats where the fun is! You need to discover how wonderful that girl is, and of course, you have to may it easy for her to know how wonderful you are. You feel nervous, excited and happy. You must dress casual, dont try to impress her too much with your wardrobe, At least at the beginning. What about buying a little gift for her on your first date? You see, I dont really like that idea, however I have lots of friends who have received flowers or chocolates on their first dates and they loved it. I still dont know any woman who doesnt like a little detail from a man.
When you decided to invite that girl to go out, you really need to have a plan. But wait, Im not talking about planning on taking her to be with you alone, you know what I mean. When I say planning Im talking about have some ideas of where to go with her to have fun. Its good to be spontaneous, but sometimes you are a little too nervous to think straight, so you need to have a plan beforehand to make your date go smooth and as natural as possible. For example, let say that you dont have a plan and at some point you have the idea of taking her to that nice restaurant downtown. But what if there is no table? How would you feel? Why not book at table in the morning or the day before? You get the idea. A good idea for your first date with that special one is to take her somewhere for lunch and not to a very formal dinner. This can help you to feel less nervous because the environment is as casual as it can be. If everything goes fine, then you can go to the next level and invite her to that elegant restaurant, but now you know a little more about her and what she likes.
Do you know what to talk about in your dates? I still remember when I met with a girl I like; I never knew what to talk about. I used to ask some friends for advice; and I even used to write down what I was going to talk about. I laugh about it now, but in those days I was so nervous that I would prefer to die. A good advice to be a good speaker, Is to be a good listener first. By good listener I mean that you get really interested in what shes talking about , Asking questions , And make Comments , Never in interrupt her to roughly . When its your turn to talk, please not to relate your whole life, just give her some funny anecdotes about you. Trying not to be a jerk by telling red or sexual jokes too much or in your first dates.
Many people who are too shy or have been living alone for some time, find it difficult to go and talk to a girl by themselves and use the service of dating agencies. I wont say anything bad about these companies, but try not to use them as your only hope. Maybe that Special one is in their files but maybe is not. It is nice to know that some companies tried to help you with your sentimental life, but wouldnt it be great if you met your partner in a public place?
A new trend has been becoming very popular, that is the Speed Dating sessions. Here, you have a few minutes to chat, in that time you can decide if you like the person or not. Its not too much time but at least you are not trying to be nice to someone for long time.
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