There are a ton of things you can do to build attraction and every dating coach has their own opinions as well as their own field tested results. Most will agree that your body language, how close or far away you are from her, your eyes, your vocal projection, how and when you touch her, sense of humor, confidence are all necessary ingredients (at one time or another) for building attraction.
In this body language attraction article, I am only going to focus on your eyes and how to use them to build initial attraction.
Here's the biggest lesson about eye contact and you probably already know it (it's in every major pick up forum I've ever visited so it's nothing new, but it's worth repeating):
It is simply by start looking a woman in the eye and holding it for a few seconds. Once you start getting better at this you can make funny faces, raise an eye brow, let out a small smirk, etc.
Pay attention to her response.
If she smiles back, holds eye contact a little longer, and looks away (in typical sideways glance fashion), and keeps glancing back at you, guess what? She's open to you meeting her! But if she shows no expression and looks away quickly, never bothering to look in your direction again, you'll be wasting your time on her! So now you know it's best to move on and find another women who WILL enjoy your company.
Let me tell you the reason behind this technique.
Women, especially hot ones, get approaches by tons of men who suck up to them, say stupid things. By simply holding your eye contact a little longer than normal you're telling her that there's a very small chances you are one of those guys. Because those guys usually don't hold the eye contact.
It will also communicate to her that you are confident. It tells her you are not an average guy. An average guy looks a hot girl in the eye and then looks down at the floor or he looks away.
That's how you generate initial attraction to women. Holding your eye contact is just one of the few things you can start doing right now to begin having better results with the female population. So, start having fun with this. Start experimenting with your eye contact. Who knows, you just might make a new friend. Good Luck!
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