Nothing in this world is as heart-wrenching and difficult, and yet as great as finding someone to spend your days and nights with. Its so weird how throughout our lives we are walking to and fro searching for that special someone. Conventionally people met their significant one while at bar or park or work place or through friend. However, as the years continue, things changed considerably. Nowadays people do not go to bar and other places to find their special one where they are moving to a more digital and modern form of dating. Going online to find our soul mate has become very common.
When online dating was first starting to hit its horizon, it was still quite a taboo. It was almost a sense of embarrassment to inform family and friends that you met your newest relationship through the telephone cables. However, nowadays the discomfort of going online to find your love has disappeared, and now, it is almost appreciated when you find someone through the Internet. Well, is this really a great way to meet your next relationship When you remove the physical side of a budding relationship, you are forced to put your focus on the other persons attributes, which include their emotional, even spiritual and mental attributes. In traditional dating atmospheres the physical aspect of being intrigued by someone was first while these three variables were the latter form of getting to know someone. The beautiful thing about online dating is that you actually begin to know the person from the inside out.
The key to keeping the relationship moving forward in online dating is Communication. Without great communication skills there is no relationship. Thus, when you initiate a form of dating through internet, you really begin to stretch your skills as a communicator. We as humans mainly use our bodies subconsciously to communicate our feelings towards another individual. The study of Body Language is a fascinating subject matter, and is 100% true. However, when you dont have the opportunity to show your emotions towards a person physically - Im not talking sexually, but I am referring to a slight hand touch and posture of body to the person etc. you begin to develop a different type of body language that takes form through words. I believe that everyone should attempt an online relationship, either romantically or to develop friendship, just to expand communication skills. The intimacy level of getting to know someone outside of all physical attributes is an amazing sensation mainly because, you are learning about someone who they truly are - hopefully.
I do have a warning about this type of relationship. It is very easy for someone to lie to you when you are not watching them talk. It is fairly easy to spot a faker through physical interactions, however, through e-mails or instant messengers, it is quite easy for someone to literally lie to you about who they are, what they believe in, etc.
Earlier I mentioned that I have tampered with online dating and have actually met a person through this medium. Although, through the e-mails it was quite intriguing and very exciting, when I met this person in face-to-face, the physical attraction just wasnt there. And one can only imagine the strange sensations that I was experiencing due to this. I had fallen for this persons personality and mental stature. However, there was absolutely no physical attraction to this individual. We know that the physical aspect of a relationship is as important as the psychological component of relationship. It developed at latter time point we moved at much closer level in more frequent phase.
As coin has two side there are pros and cons about anythingOnline dating and/or conventional dating system is not exceptional to this.
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